he wz in luv wit me 3yrs ago, bt i nevr told him how i felt, and then i moved city. i realised i loved him wen i moved, bt i lost contact wit hm. it kills me now that i heard hes engaged. how can he forget his first true love? i knw hes engaged, bt i wana tell him hw i feel. should i??
2006-08-28 07:04:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No, No and No - you had your chance and missed it - don't risk hurting a lot of people for a decision that was yours. Move on and someday you will find someone else.
2006-08-28 07:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by wild_orchid_tx36 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just a case of I want what she's got? Now that somebody else has him you want him but if you had him then it would turn out you didn't want him in the first place. There's no point in thinking of all the things that could of been. I truly believe everything happens for a reason and there is obviously somebody else out there for you. Open yourself up to the posibilities! I was obsessed with an ex to the point that i was trying to get him to come home with me at a bar while there was a gorgeous guy beside me trying to get my attention. Thank god for me that gorgeous guy kept persuing me despite my ignorance because 3 years later we are engaged and I'm treated like a queen! Good luck babe! I really mean that. xx
2006-08-28 14:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh god FV!! I am so sorry but you can't tell him.If you walked back into his life and expressed emotional feelings that has already been there to him in that matter it will end up confusing him.
You also need to think about the girl he is with / engaged too- you will be hurting her feelings what if this guy is her 'one'.
do yo ureally want to be 'the girl' that everyone will point out too in the end if you break a great relationship up?
you can try to be his friend, and that may be hard...
FV he have already moved on, I know this will hurt, but perhaps you need to move on too.
2006-08-28 14:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by qemme0125 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not tell him how you feel. Besides, the feelings you have for him are for the person he was 3 years ago. You don't even know who he is now, so how can you say you love him?
He has apparently moved on with his life, and it would be best for everyone involved if you did the same.
Best of luck!
2006-08-28 14:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look now if he is engaged with another girl so i don't think that he will take any kind of interest in you.so and if he will say that he want to be with you so i think he will just use you and will leave you alone so i think that .better forget that guy,engage yourself in some work study do a job as you need and choose another person for all this things.
2006-08-28 14:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by alltimeforyou2000 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to have to say no no and no myself because you had the chance to tell him.just exactly how you felt about him and you didn't.So why would you want to all the sudden. tell him now how you feel when you could have told him 3 years ago.If you loved him then you should have told him then.Not now that he's engaged to married to another woman.thats just plan wrong and not a good idea to do.best of luck
2006-08-28 14:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He is engaged to another and it serves no purpose by you telling him how you feel. Find another and let him have happiness with whomever he is now about to marry.
2006-08-28 14:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have four options:
1)Forget about him. [RECOMENDED]
2)Risk being hurt by telling him how you feel. There is a small chance that he will dump his fiancé, about 1 in 200.
3)Wait for her to die or divorce him.
4)Have an affair.
2006-08-28 23:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by MorgantonNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You had your chance, and he's moved on to find happiness with someone else.
Time for you to do the same.
2006-08-28 15:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, you missed your chance. He found someone he loves and it's time for you to move on. Also, please stop using this txt msg language in a question - its annoying and makes you seem 13.
2006-08-28 14:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by rrhiannon99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋