If it is just for fun and there is never physical contact; is it wrong?
2006-08-28 06:33:07 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think so, after all they could be going out and getting the real thing. It is a fantasy world and it's not hurting anyone. I know lots of ppl disagree with me on this one, but look at it this way,...if your partner would rather sit in front of a computer and fulfill his or her fantasy's than to go out and get the real thing,...then that should say something about how they feel about you. we all have fantasy's and sometimes our partners cant or wont fill those fantasy's. cyber is just another way of getting what you need without hurting anyone. OK, now i guess I've made half these ppl either hate me or think I'm a nut,..lol!! sorry....
2006-08-28 08:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by juslookin 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, I was just thinking about a internet friend of mine who told me "for all I know you could be a man". Which I'm not, but you never know. I don't consider it cheating if you never make actual contact with the person. It's more of Fantasy sex thing than cheating. Cheating is when you actually have sexual contact with the person. Cyber sex is just having fantasy sex. It's a persons mind that is having imaginary sex, with who knows and who really cares. But if a person feels that their partner is cheating on the computer, there's some low self esteem going on or maybe things aren't so great in the bedroom and they should fix that so the other doesn't feel it's necessary to get their rocks off on the computer.
2006-08-28 06:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think of cheating as doing anything that you wouldn't want your partner doing. How would you feel if he were to have phone or cyber sex with someone else? If that thought makes you uncomfortable, then there is your answer.
2006-08-28 06:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its for fun when you are single and lonely. If you are in a good relationship I consider it cheating because there are some communicating and some sexual tension/emotion involved that belongs to your significant other. I've read a book on emotional cheating(fiction) but it still brought home the problem of cheating. Anything dealing with sexual play, emotions, intercourse, etc. is reserved for yours truly. Then again, this is my opinion...
2006-08-28 06:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the persons beliefs.
Is masterbating cheating? Some people dont agree with self pleasure, and looking at magazines or internet/video porn.
For me it is cheating, but my husband has let me do it (CYBER)
sex but we are different than most people. We are more open than most.
2006-08-28 06:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by purplejoyv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.... In most peoples eyes it is and others its not! Just like you said there is no physical contact! That's like beign at a bar and flirting.... is it cheating or isnt it? You have to ask your partner these things and see what they think!?
2006-08-28 06:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by MIKKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, it is cheating. You are robbing your own committed partner of what is rightfully theirs, and giving it to a stranger! It is an escape from reality and indication that some intimacy work is needed with your partner. Invest ONLY in your partner, who has committed to take the bad with the good.
2006-08-28 06:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by georgia b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is emotional cheating! Just as wrong as physical in my opinion
2006-08-28 06:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its wrong if you are deliberately trying to hide it from your partner...If he knows about it and is okay with it and if it really is just fun and games then I dont think its cheating..But if you are doing this behind your partner's back, then you are wrong for that!
2006-08-28 06:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by tha gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating. Would you want the same thing done to you? When you start doing things like that you start to want the real thing more and more.
2006-08-28 06:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by Tazaor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋