how can u stop masturbation?

Question

please getting married is not a option

Answer 1

by step by step. close all the doors infront of mustarbation.

follow these steps, one by one after another:

1st) promised to reduce masturbation to only 3 times a week, then twice a week, then once a week.

2nd) promised that during this only 1 time a week, you will not watch porn, so u will only use ur imigination

3rd) promised that u will never use ur right hand, and only ur left hand. then stop using ur both hands when u masturbate such as grab ur body against ur bed.

4th) then promise to not do it in ur bed room.

5th) promised that u will never do it in any place where God name is mentioned. such as ur own home!

6th) promised that u will never do it in any place where God can sees you.

Answer 2

Well, first of all, forget people who say, it's natural so it's okay - as if something being natural, instantly makes it right.

Secondly, you have the desire to stop, which is great, and honestly getting married, probably wouldn't solve it, lots of people think that only to be disappointed months into their marriage.

The question is here, are you at the level of bad habit, or addiction? A bad habit you can stop by replacing it with good things, give yourself a long list of things you can do instead to choose from.

If you are at the level of addiction (which is pretty easy to get there because the chemicals associated with the human orgasm are very potent), then you'll need more help. Since you asked this in the religious section, I'll take the liberty to suggest going to your eclesiastical leader for help and support. He/she will probably give you lots of good advice on the process of repentance and prayer, and then if with time, you find no improvement, move to recommending good books, and possibly a counselor.

Best wishes on meeting your goals!

Answer 3

Why would you want to stop just because you're getting married? I really doubt that your future partner will want to have sex with you every time you may want it, and sometimes it's just easier to "take matters into your own hands" so to speak. Talk openly to your partner about it, and there's nothing wrong with an extra long bath or shower. If your partner thinks there's something wrong with it, and you have no problem with it, maybe they might not be the one for you. Small differences like that can create big problems later.

Answer 4

First of all u need to have some respect for your own dam self..Anyone who ask such a ignorent question needs help. Keep it up and your one mucsle will get bigger and doctors say that if u do it to much then when u try to do it the Normal way u can't...

Answer 5

Do good to other people, masturbation could be a sign of selfishness and immaturity and a non-integrated sexuality.
Talk to someone you trust about it.
Stop fantasizing and don't look at things that will make you excited.
(For some it could be good with anti-depressive medication since it could be a sign of depression and or anxiety)
Pray if you can about it.

Answer 6

take it one step at a time. now personally know that its difficult, but instead of for example 2 times a day bring it down to 1. or for example instead of 8 times a week bring it down to 6. just keep trying to decease the amount of times that u do it and eventually u will be able to.

it will be hard, but nothing worthwhile in this world comes easily.

Answer 7

well it actually is a sin, but not a mortal sin that will send u to hell.
'its abuse of what is only supposed to be used with someone you love'-a priest

jesus said something like 'its better to spill your seed on a whore than on the ground'

like any addiction, to stop you have to slowly bring it down.
avoid porn and stuff that u masterbate to
and if you give in, repent

another thing, be like 'ill wait till sunday' then sunday comes and u might have forgotton todays the day, but if you didnt then be like 'ill wait till saturday' then keep setting different days so u never actually reach 'that day'

Answer 8

Pray for strength

Avoid watching suggestive TV and Internet.

Keep busy

Have friends that are also Christians.

When you do fall, repent!

Answer 9

I recommend prayer and fasting. Also realize that even if you fall, you have to keep up the struggle. Ask God to forgive you and accept his mercy and grace. I think God is pleased with your struggle to overcome this addiction of self-abuse.

Answer 10

just stop. Let God be your strength when temptation comes.

Matthew 19:26
But Jesus looked at them and said to them, “With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”

Matthew 17:20
So Jesus said to them, “Because of your unbelief; for assuredly, I say to you, if you have faith as a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move; and nothing will be impossible for you.

# Luke 1:37
For with God nothing will be impossible.”