im not close to this side of my family, but i would like to try to be now that im getting older and the one cousin i have talked to on and off for a few years had always acted funny with me.
now that im over 18 he calls me more and always complains to me about his wife not giving him sex.he acts immature and says sexual jokes all the time
then the other night we were text messaging and he sent me a picture of his penis then laughed and aked if i had ever seen one that big.....
i have'nt talked to him since............should i??
2006-08-28 06:04:06 · 13 answers · asked by ??ThiNk PiNk?? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He is married and older than you- it is inappropriate for him to be speaking to you in a sexual manner. I realize you are trying to be close to that side of the family, but maybe you are a bit too close to him, sounds like he is taking advantage of your innocence and kindness and putting you into an uncomfortable situation. Tell him you do not find his jokes or pictures funny and that he needs to stop or you will have to talk to his wife. Some people do not realize they have crossed the line until it has gone too far. Let him know that he has. Good luck!
2006-08-28 06:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to the question is a definite YES! This person has a problem and needs to get some help. I would suggest one last communication to let him know this and then go as far away from this situation as possible. If he persists , show his wife the E-mails he sent you.
2006-08-28 07:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by nerv6963 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems as though there was a good reason that you were not close to that side of the family...don't consider it a loss and don't bother talking to him again. You may want to let his wife know what a pig she is married to.
2006-08-28 06:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by qtpie2526 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL IF IT IS FIRST COUSIN IT IS BUT YOU SHOULD STAY AWAY BECAUSE HE IS MARRIED CAN YOU JUST IMAGINE WHAT WOULD HAPPEN TO YOUR FAMILY IF HIS MARRIAGE BROKE UP OVER THIS . I THINK YOU NEED TO STOP ALL CONTACT WITH HIM , AND ALL MEN SAY THERE WIFE WONT HAVE SEX ANYMORE JUST TO JUSTIFY WHAT THEY ARE DOING . YOU ARE YOUNG AND YOU DO NT NEED A DEAD BEAT TRYING TO GET IN YOUR PANTS
2006-08-28 06:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by cammie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF YOU DONT KNOW BETTER THAN TO TALK TO A MEMBER OF YOUR FAMILY THAT WAY, THEN YOU NEED AS MUCH HELP AS HE DOES. YOU WANTED THAT KIND OF ATTENTION, YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING, YOU SAID YOU ARE OVER 18, OR MAYBE THIS WHOLE STORY IS A LIE FOR ATTENTION? WHICH EVER WAY IT IS,I AM GOING TO REPORT YOU!
2006-08-28 06:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by I CAN SEE RIGHT THROUGH YOU! 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to show his wife. That's not cool! Yes, your cousin is incest!
2006-08-28 06:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
and some people wonder wh ytheir family tree is straight without branches..
get the hint yet !
2006-08-28 06:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk with him if you want more of the same.
2006-08-28 06:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, thats just wrong. You need to tell him how you fee, then tell him to stay away.
2006-08-28 06:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is truly disturbing. Reported.
2006-08-28 06:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by KIMBO 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋