Hey isn't annoying when ure baby daddys are all up in ure koolaid even when u are not together anymore, i swear because mine he is so annoying and is also married, and he be trying to still sleep with me, but i have a couple of times, i mean that is my baby daddy and i also lost my virginity to him, but know he is trying to control me again like if i was 15 again, he needs a big reality check that itz just sex, but he wont listen to words that i want to end our affair, but i do feel bad because he is married, and i still feel some kind of love for him, i just don't know what to do anymore. Also he did me really wrong!!! Any Advice???.
2006-08-28 05:36:32 · 20 answers · asked by LADY J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PLEASE stop sleeping with him! He will never respect you if you don't. It doesn't matter if he took your virginity or if he was your first love! He wouldnt be married if he cared. Clearly he is a dog. Why would you want to hurt his wife, because he hurt you? If anything, you should keep his %&$ at a distance, because he isnt worthy.
Always live your life knowing that what you give is what you get. If you help a man to cheat on his wife, don't expect any man to EVER be faithful to you. And you deserve that. Please forget about you and him. Concentrate on your baby(ies) and getting some self-esteem!
With All Do Respect,
Another Baby Momma
2006-08-28 05:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by onemillion_n1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all I'm no "baby momma" and that's your problem. I'm a mother to a child that me and a man have togehter. Stop sleeping with him for one and he wouldn't have a feeling of having some type of control over you. Stop acting like the sterotypical "Baby momma". Stop sleeping with someone just because you have a kid together. he doesn't have to have sex with you to take care of your child. He won't listen when you try to end the affair...what? Just stop. what can he really do? You have the upper hand in this situation becuase he's married and you can always threaten him with telling his wife to lay off. Stop giving him so much power and he won't have any over you.
2006-08-28 05:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will probably always care about him because he is your baby's daddy, but it doesn't mean you have to sleep with him. I understand it can be just about sex, but the fact remains he is still married. Only you can end this affair and that's by being strong. Don't have sex with him. Try to honor the commitment he made with his wife even if he doesn't. Sometimes you just have to be the bigger person. Sorry but he'll continue to do you wrong if you allow him too. Be strong!!
2006-08-28 05:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl.....no you didn't just go there! Anyway, uno damn well both of you are wrong! I mean c'mon, how long has this s_hit been goin on? He's always done wat he wanted witchu cuz he still has you when he wants to right? U need to put a stop to this NOW!!! I mean you don't have to hate him....cuz after all he is ur baby daddy and ur first true love. Sometimes to love someone, you must let them go but you w/aways love them and they w/always be in ur heart!But be that stronger person and let it be. If it's just sex...ur da 1 dat shld be in control and not him. But either way let him go...he ain't no good. I mean put urself in his wifes shoes. Let say, if you were da1 married 2 him, wld you like it if he was having an affair....
R'member wat goes around comes around....
2006-08-28 05:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Traviesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do have a way of acting like they can still be in control of your life don't they...What you need to do is leave dude alone. If you are not together anymore then it must be for a good reason. As long as you have sex with him you are giving him the power to feel like he has that control. You will always love him because he is your childs father, but thats where it needs to stop. Girl I had to tell my baby's dad that I will love him forever for giving me my daughter but that is it. You have to stop letting him feel like he can have you when he wants to and on his terms.
2006-08-28 05:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by mssashley1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
H-E-L-L-O!
your baby's daddy!!! doesn't that say it all!!
He is not with you and doesn't want to be with you because he married someone else. Why are you letting him take advantage of you? 15 is very young to have a baby. You should have grown up since then and put your child first.
Remember he is you baby's daddy, no other relation to you!!! He married someone else!
2006-08-28 05:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by mum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might might desire to trust you. It somewhat gets on my nerves to boot whilst somebody refers to a mom as "toddler-Momma." i do no longer understand in spite of if its our society becoming to be ignorant or no longer, in spite of the shown fact that it form of feels to me, that having toddlers isn't being taken severe anymore. I recommend in in the present day's society, it particularly is amazingly elementary for the female to no longer even understand who the daddy is! for this reason why it is likewise so elementary the place you've got an abortion, provide it up the day it particularly is born, or basically drop it off on the well being facility sometime once you agree on you do no longer pick it anymore. And each and every thing is advantageous. human beings might desire to awaken! Its no longer somewhat okay to no longer understand who the daddy of your toddler is, or to even understand in case you have new child or no longer. once you're that irresponsible, then wait til you're married to have intercourse..
2016-09-30 02:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by lashbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see that's why it's hard to be with guys you have kids because they always sleep with they baby mama even if there n a new relationship leave the married man alone let him take care of your baby well i guess he didn't do you that bad because you'll still messing with him and g's wouldn't you be hurt that he's married someone else and not you it's just sex can't you see that leave that man alone i know you wouldn't want someone to do that to you
2006-08-28 05:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know just what you mean girl. Thank God both my babies daddies are in their respective countries. That way I don't have them in my face all the time. But when they were in my face, it was so annoying. I couldn't fart without them saying something. All jokes aside girl, you need to leave this guy alone. If he persists you need to check him and tell him that you will tell his wife. Good luck.
2006-08-28 05:40:54 · answer #9 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course U still have love for him - he is Ur childs father. But the whole sleeping around behinds his wifes back - that AINT cool! He thinks he has a FREE pass...C'mon now...
2006-08-28 05:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋