a friend of mine has been having a long distance relationship for about 6 months now. her bf loves her very very much....she told me they talked about having sex next time they see each other. They were both virgins and they recently saw each othe about 2 weeks ago and she found out that her bf had sex with someone else cuz wen they did it for the 1st time he knew just what to do. He said he had sex with someone else so tht he will be "prepared" for her and so that he will kno wat to do when the time comes to please her instead of being totally clueless. My friend is absolutely grossed out by this but he really really loves her. Is this acceptable? should she dump him? if he REALLY did love her wouldnt he ONLY want to have sex with HER and no one else?
2006-08-28 05:28:49 · 17 answers · asked by altoidsmonkey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is full of sh*t.
2006-08-28 05:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
This day & age it's important to be monogamous or practice safe sex, the world has changed(aids & other std's) unless these two were of age of & not under the age or 18 like 15-16 they shouldn't be having sex this young anyway. I feel someone has to be first weather it's with someone your in love with, or someone you think you know well enough & hope to love. I hope there is so much casual sex now days with younger boy receiving oral sex from girls & saying it's safe & it's not. (again Std's) in the mouth can occur. I know from personal experance sex is open to responsibile adults who can make this decisions for there self's. not from peired pressure froma younger ages boy or girl.
2006-08-28 05:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by marsh627 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are few things more beautiful love-making properly orchestrated,the two them would have had the opportunity to be each others first,a memory that they would always cherish,he really betrayed that trust.I would dump him.
2006-08-28 05:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by porkupuss 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is a dick head and he don't love her. She is better off dumping him and being more careful next time. He deprived her of a virgin. She thought she had a dollar and found it was really a rusty nail.
2006-08-28 05:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that's BS he's has been having sex with other girls if it was special he would have waited on her and not go about the place if he loved her he would want it to be special so she need to leave this guy alone he might give her something or whatever love means something special and he should have waited on her isn't that what they planned
2006-08-28 05:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She should dump his *** for cheating on her. That's gross that he's using someone else to have sex. There's no such thing as to having sex with someone else to be prepared. He has no respect for his gf at all.
2006-08-28 05:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
WELL THAT IS A GOOD OLD LINE HE USED, SO HE COULD BE PREPARED FOR HER. IT WOULD HAVE BEEN MORE SPECIAL IF HE WOULD HAVE WAITED SO THEY BOTH CAN EXPERIENCE THE FIRST TIME TOGETHER, HE COULD EXPLORE HER AND HER HIM.
THAT IS A CHOSE SHE WILL HAVE TO MAKE IF SHE STILL WANTS HIM TO BE HER FIRST.
PS... LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP DON'T LAST
2006-08-28 05:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Dee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys have issues with their sexuality. and they think if they perform badly in bed, somehow their manhood and sexuality is effected. this guy loves your friend so much, that he didn't want to disappoint her and thats why he ended up having sex before. i think it is childish of him and he should have spoken about it openly with your friend first. your friend should probably forgive him for his stupidity.
2006-08-28 05:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by publically_private 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him. Hmmm why would he have sex with some one else, just to be prepared? Thats retarded.
2006-08-28 05:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
he is just lying...dump him. he could just watch porn to know what to do instead of have sex with someone else. its much easier to accept ur bf watching porn than him having sex with another lady cos him watching porn is just jerking off himself
2006-08-28 05:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hate to say it but your friend is very gullible. He's playing her like a ten cent guitar.
2006-08-28 05:34:38 · answer #11 · answered by DelK 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋