2006-08-28 05:23:44 · 29 answers · asked by scherzo_for_motorcycle_orchestra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask Jerry Springer.
Is she a stage 5 virgin clinger??
2006-08-28 05:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether she was a virgin 3 years ago or did she lose it to someone else within those 3 years.
That would make a big difference.
If she was not a virgin and lied about it, then you know in your heart whether you can forgive her for that. I understand if she wanted you and didnt think you'd like her if she had done it already. Guys pressure women to feel like we're some sort of unworthy sluts if we aren't virgins. Well certainly not "serious relationship" material.
Just let her know that lying anytime from here on out will be unacceptable and see how that goes. Give her a little credit for being honest now. Because, she didnt have to ever tell you.
IF, she lost it to someone else during these past 3 years, I think you know what to do.
2006-08-28 05:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by onemillion_n1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a big lie to carry around for 3 years. If she wasnt a virgin and she wasnt giving it up to you. Then who was sleeping with her? You need to leave her. Your whole relationship was based on a lie. What else is she keeping from you? Leave now before you find out she's a man!
2006-08-28 05:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very disappointed. However I would try to reflect on myself during the early stage of the relationship...maybe she sensed that a Virgin is what you wantd. Her only chance was to lie about her virginity...while you got the opportunity to learn more about her true personality...If you like what you have thus far, forgive her. Be careful though...find out if lying is her trait..
" then dorp her like hot potatoes"
2006-08-28 05:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be mad at her!!! She was probably REALLY regretting her first time and not telling you because she thought maybe you wouldnt want her anymore. She probably wants you alot and that is why she eventually admitted it to you. She is most likely very sorry and ashamed and now she can only turn to you because deep down you are probably the one she really loves and that is why she didnt know how you were going to react.
2006-08-28 05:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd be pissed. the entire relationship is built on a lie. i'd seriously talk with her and decide if you feel that the relationship can recover from such a serious lie. i wouldn't have a problem with her not being a virgin if, and only if, she came clean about it the first time that it came up. the fact that she lied causes a problem. if she lied about that, what else has she lied about? are you willing to chance it? you gotta ask yourself that. good luck!
2006-08-28 05:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you went three years without getting any and she's been getting it all along then it's time you got some of the good stuff. Which may not be very good any more
2006-08-28 05:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by spike03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was a man I would be mad as hell because we were missing out on three years of sex.
Look on the bright side though you got to know her as a person without sex being a factor. She respects that.
2006-08-28 05:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by RACQUEL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you need to breath before you act, otherwise you'll regret.
If she is good to you then I will say she was just hiding the truth from you, probably because you were going to leave her for that.
But if she's just that girl then she is a liar.
Think about it...don't be a wimp.
2006-08-28 05:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are obviously some trust issues or she could have been ashamed but i would ask how come she didn't feel the need to be honest about it up front and if she can lie about something like that what else could she be lying to u about
2006-08-28 05:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by ndemby05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋