HOw MANy of YOU have DONE this????

Question

***********CHEATED**************** PLEASE BE HONEST AND EXPLAIN WHY N DID you feel bad for doing so

Answer 1

I would like to know where all these Saints come from...Yes, I have cheated. No I don't feel that this makes me a slut.I have cheated on Boyfriends but never my Husband. So the the old saying once a cheater always a cheater...isn't true.I cant say that I have felt terribly bad when I did cheat. maybe because I never got caught. I look at life a bit on the wild side at times. It's more fun than being a Saint. I have never been cheated on.

Answer 2

I have cheated on my current boyfriend once, and by cheating, I mean I kissed another guy. That's it, which doesn't make it right, but i did it. I did it because there was a time in our relationship when he was acting as though he didn't give a sh** about me. He was taking my car, and dissapearing on me. I would wait for him to pick me up after work, and there were quite a few times when he would show up like 6 hours late. Then, once, he never showed up at all, and I had to go and search for my car the next day. So, once night, I went out with my friend, now I didn't have the intention to cheat on him, it just happened. Met a nice guy...talked, and he kissed me at the end of the night. That was it. But, I never did it again. And, i never wanted to tell him, but he pulled it out of me. I told him, and he was very upset, but we worked through it. I feel bad, but I think it made us closer.

Answer 3

Jeepers, sure are a lot of LIARS out there today!!!

Yes, I did, twice actually, technically. The idea of adultery only comes into play when you are married, but I haven't ever been married, I'm not the marrying kind :>.

But I'm standing on semantics, and I actually think you want a real answer to this question, so....

I 'cheated' on my ex with someone else for several reasons, but the most important one was because I felt like he was ignoring me, and I wanted to see if I could still find someone out there attracted to me. I did, but though I didn't feel bad for cheating ON him, I felt bad for ME, because I compromised my own morals and beliefs just for a few seconds of pleasure.

I think people cheat because of a deep seeded need to be wanted, needed and loved...and for some reason or the other, they aren't getting that from their partner, so they seek it otherwise. I realize that guilt does come into play, but honestly ask yourself what are you feeling guilty of?

Are you feeling guilty because you cheated on your husband/wife and have jeopardized your trusting relationship, or are you guilty because you THINK you should feel guilty about doing that, and you don't? I suffered the latter fate myself. I never was upset about 'cheating' on my ex, because I never trusted him anyway.

Answer 4

I did it once. I only did it because my supposed fiance cheated on me. This was the woman I was supposed to have married!

Normally I would never do anything like that. I am supposed to be a lucky guy, but here is where I made an exception. I know this will sound crummy of me, but I was kinda empowered when I cheated on her back and got even. LOL

Answer 5

I have never "cheated". But after i broke up with this one guy, he thought i was still with him (even though i told him to his face that it was over, he didn't pay attention) so he might have thought it was cheating when i made out with another guy. (actually two other guys in that one weekend. Ha, what can i say?) Any ways, I was hooking up with one of those guys for a relationship and it upset the other guy because he thought even though i told him it was over that i was still his. Boy was he wrong. I don't talk to any of the three any more. I am for one man and one man only. And that wasn't really cheating, right?

Answer 6

I have never cheated but I can close once. So I broke up with the guy I was with and moved on with the almost Cheatee. You'll know when its over. Maybe you were just excited by someone else showing you some attention for a while.

Answer 7

i cheated on my husband i mean he was my boyfriend at the time but i cheated because he wasnt having sex with me the way i liked it and as often as i liked it so i went somewhere else and got it also i did feel bad aterwards because then when i got home he wanted sex then but it was also a situation where i mean i had just met my boyfriend but i had friends before him that was my sex buddies so it was like i started catching feelings for this person and i didnt want to just leave him alone once i meet my boyfriend because he was there before my boyfirend but i was 19teen then so once i started getting older not that much older cause im 22 i started looking at it like if i have sex buddies anit no telling how many more sex partners these guys have just like me so now im still with the same guy weve been together for 3 years and we just got married august 10th 2006 and i havent cheated again

Answer 8

i have cheated once b4 and yes i did feel bad it was one of those things where we were having alot of problems and i did but i did not go seek out this oppurtunity at first i didn't feel bad but in the end it just caused to much confusion we are still together but once u have broken that trust it's hard to get it back so if things are so bad u feel the need just end it to save the other persons feelings i have learned my lesson and will NEVER do it again

Answer 9

I have to be honest, Yes, on my first husband I did........why?...I really don't know, maybe I didn't love my husband the way I should have, maybe I was still childish, maybe I was totally attracted to this older guy I had an affair with, or maybe it was because he cheated on me all the time........who knows........people cheat for lots of reasons, but when you find true love, the thought of cheating won't cross your mind......trust me, I know this from experience.

Answer 10

I cheated on several bfs in the past when I was a lot younger. But I've been with my husband for SEVERAL years now and haven't even considered cheating once. That's how I knew he was the one