what do you do if a guy ask you out and you go out and you have a great time and everything, he tells you to call him and you finally get a hold of him, he says that he would like to out again and ask if he can call you back in a few minutes but never does and it has happened twice when he said he would call back. Am I getting blown off or what?
2006-08-28 05:14:51 · 23 answers · asked by April 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him one more chance. He may be busy or involved in something. Remember 3 is the magic number, unless its ugly or serious. Try one more time and if he blows you off then move on. Who knows after a while he may call YOU back!
2006-08-28 05:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are totally being blown off................ you had a great time, but he was looking for sparks that he obviously didn't get or find with you. I am sorry, it sounds like you really liked him and genuinely had fun in his presents. I hope you let go and find yourself a man that does feel the same............. this guy is trying to be nice by not responding at all........... let him be nice about it and you go on your way to better men............... good luck and blessed be.
2006-08-28 12:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEP!! Sorry...it seems that IF he really wanted to see you again..he'd be calling you back...his asking if he can call you back is a tactic used to keep you on the hold...find someone else and wait FOR his phone call..IF he had that great of a time..he'll call you...but I wouldn't wait!
2006-08-28 12:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer ... if he really thought you were special, I think he would make a point to call you back. You should give him a taste of his own medicine--don't call him and don't answer when/if he calls you. He's a loser
2006-08-28 12:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by danika1066 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure are. Something in your first date didnt go well for him. Can be something stupid, like your perfume, u talk like his mother, who knows, but he didnt like something. And dont bother asking him. If hes a nice guy, he'll never tell u something was worng. You'll never know what it was, Move on. Next!
2006-08-28 12:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by lasttruediva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just be busy, give the guy some breathing room and he'll come around. Get to clingy and you will run him off
2006-08-28 12:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Big 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Told u to call him? Well if u were some1 else reading this what would u say, 2 u.
2006-08-28 12:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Nthape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him, if he's serious about you he would remember you on the top of his list.
He was just looking for someone to have fun and not really care if it goes through or not. Better move on to better things.
2006-08-28 12:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, just leave him your number (therefore leaving the ball in his court) and forget about him. He'll call if he really is into you.
If not, then you will no longer have to wonder.
2006-08-28 12:19:55 · answer #9 · answered by onemillion_n1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, youre getting the runaround. Move on.
2006-08-28 12:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋