my cousin was trying to pick up on this girl at the bar the other night, well as the evening went on she was wasted and asked me to tell her brother in law that she was coming home with us. So, I blurted out "uh - do you realize that he has a live in girlfreind at home?" OOOPS He was soo mad at me that he left me and his sister there.....should I call and appologize or just leave it be? I dont want to make matters worse. I probably actually saved him a huge headache though because this girl was a total idiot.
2006-08-28 04:57:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
Your cousin is mad at two things - missing out on a good time, and his own guilt at trying to cheat on his girlfriend. You were just the convenient target for that anger.
There's no need to apologize, just continue to get drunk and jam his game.
2006-08-28 06:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by Tekguy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is this Mel Gibson???
This is a tough situation. Your cousin was hugely in the wrong and now he's mad at you because he is a jerk. Sounds like some displacement issues. He's the guy who is commiting a crime and then gets mad at the person across the street who calls the cops. He thinks that it's not his fault for doing the crime, it's your fault for calling him on it.
Personally, I would just leave it be. I'd give him a week to stew in it and then call him for beer and a pizza. If he's still upset about it, then is he really someone you need around? A cheater and someone with anger management issues? Frankly, he's lucky that you haven't told his girlfriend.
2006-08-28 05:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you did the right thing. thats all i can say. if he brought that girl home then probably his live in girlfriend would be hurt AND that other girl would also be hurt which means you were saving him a big headache because he probably would end up with neither of them. i think you should try to apologize and if he doesn't accept it then maybe he isn't someone to hang around. Associate yourself with people that are understanding.
2006-08-28 05:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by ash 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would have done the same thing.....if he doesn't want to be with his girlfriend then he needs to leave her and then pick up other chicks. But if he has no intention on breaking up with his girl then you did what I would have done.... GOOD LOOKIN OUT!
2006-08-28 05:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer_spanky2002 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you did the crime, now do the time
even though it sounds like you did him a HUGE favour, for a number of reasons,
you are going to wait for him to work his way back to you
2006-08-28 09:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by capollar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what they say: The truth comes out when you're drunk. It allows you to say things you normally wouldn't sober.
2006-08-28 05:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by eehco 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are fine. I hope that his live in finds out. She deserves the truth.
2006-08-28 05:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by Today is the Day 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he deserved it for cheating on his girlfriend and you saved the girl from sleeping with the jerk which she would regret when she becomes sober.
2006-08-28 05:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mina//♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh, thats sad, u should give him a nice apology card, but he was very wrong 4 what he did
2006-08-28 05:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should appologize but also tell him that he was making a mistake
2006-08-28 07:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by magicglueofmike 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋