Im in love with this guy alot. I have never felt this way about anyone else, and i know that he likes me alot to (i have tons a proof) but he went on this vacation, and before he left i saw him briefly in the store and i was so concentrated on what i was getting i didnt realize he waved and smiled to me until after i turned to look at him I tried waving-- but he got in a car. My friend told me i was an idiot for not seeing him. But i really really need to let him know i love him and need him. How do i do that without feeling "needy" or "clingy"? Because im not like that when im around him, i just need to let him know somehow. HELP!!!!
2006-08-28 04:51:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is what I think...I think you should just tell him and be honest.Life is way to short to like someone but be afraid to let them know that!Everything happens for a reason...Let him know and you might just be very suprised!Good luck with him!
2006-08-28 04:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by jill f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be very careful with the way you phrase things. Your question asks how you tell him you "need" him, and then you say you don't want to feel "needy". I recommend telling him you care for him or love him if you've been seeing him a while, but I would never use the word "need".
2006-08-28 04:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by Usagi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a casual date out for dinner would get things in the way, I think he has the right feeling for you and what the both of you need is a push in that direction.
Asking him out, and express your feeling a bit and see what he says. Just remember to open youself to himwhen the times comes to tell him the truth, I think you'll do just fine.
You'll get nerves, frustrated, don't know what to do or think and that's all normal. Just be youself and you'll fine.
2006-08-28 05:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, tell'em what you feel and what you're looking to get out of the relationship. I f he feels the same way, he'll let you know about it. Don't worry about sounding desparate because that's way your're telling him what you want, and if he doesn't want to be a part of it, then he's free to do whatever he wants.
But since you're telling me that you think he feels the same way, then he will more than likely respond the way you want and it'll be the beginning of a beautiful relationship.
2006-08-28 04:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by Nestor Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't say, nobody's going to know. he won't be playing guessing games with you anyway. this is the 21st century. you should fight for your own happiness. if things doesn't work out as what you expect, at least you have give it a try. you won't feel regretted.
2006-08-28 04:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick up the phone and tell him you just wanted to say hi and see how the vacation was going.
2006-08-28 04:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel.And then I think he will tell you how he feels. If he doesn't don't worry about it. Actions speak louder than words.
2006-08-28 05:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried honesty...That's usually the best approach.
2006-08-28 05:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
three words: i love u.
2006-08-28 05:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by ♥BermudaShortzROCK♦ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "Honey, I need you ... a lot!"
2006-08-28 05:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by Jookemgood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋