I love him and he treats me like Im not even there i tried talking to him I have tried writing a letter . I bend over backwards to do anything for him and it's like nothing that I do please's him we are due to have twins soon .What can I do to fix our relationship ?
2006-08-28 04:48:39 · 13 answers · asked by Broken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think your relationship can be fixed...relationships aren't a one way street. One person is NOT supposed to bend over backwards to please the other.
If that's how he treats you when you try to hard, then you shouldn't be with him.
2006-08-28 04:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is already over........... it has been for sometime now, and nothing you do is working because he doesn't want it to. I am sorry you are pregnant with twins and he has abandoned you emotional. You will get through this and family and friends will help you get through........... I am sorry, but he has made up his mind and any man that can plant the seed and yet not hold up to his feelings and love that made that seed to grow........... is no good and not worth any good efforts you have. I am sorry but you will be ok............. sounds like this relationship will be over soon but you will find a good decent and worthy man.......... Love is not all you need to keep a relationship together if that love is not returned. You really need to move on and do for you and your babies. This is easier said then done..........but I am trying to do the same myself right now. blessed be...........
2006-08-28 04:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, there is no fixing this. How old are you? Seriously, you need to get a backbone and realize you are on your own. Dont focus on that boy anymore. Focus on yourself and healthy babies. Put your foot down and stick to your guns..... I realize this is easier said than done, but I have done it. I had 3 lil ones, including a set of twins and a baby on the way. If i can make it, so can you. Surround yourself with your family and forget him.
2006-08-28 04:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mystie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is act in the same way. Go out with friends without telling him ,if he doesn;t want you, don`t make questions. He has to understand in any way that you don`t care and that you have found the confort in another place. Make him jelaus. If that doesn`t work, the only way to scare him is to tell him that you are going to splitt up and give your reasons. If that still doesn`t work, than try to find smbody else. It`s not to always give without taking anything. If he really doesn`t care, you can`t have a life suffering.
2006-08-28 04:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the way you said he treats you,you shouldn't even be with him,cause he really don't deserve you,but your kids will need a father and for that,try talking to him,do everything you can ,and if that doesn't work that let the man go.Trust me girl there's somebody better waiting for you.!!
2006-08-28 04:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by Sammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat him like he doesn't exist. Ignore him. If he doesn't change then tell him to leave. Trust that you will get him back after you give birth and get your figure back. And trust that you will and it won't take long. I'm back to my size and I gave birth 4 weeks ago and this is my 4th child. Be strong for your babies and congrats. He will come around.
2006-08-28 04:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play Hardball. Make him want you. Become distant and get involved with other things and hang out with your friends. remember your old friends were there before him and will be there after as well. the main thing is to have fun and enjoy your life! Smile and know that you are loved!
2006-08-28 04:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by dirtbag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is key. but it seems like that's all you been trying to do with him :/
i think talking to him doesn't work, then i say move on and end it. you deserve better girrrrlll, someone who will listen to you.. love you and regards you as his little princess. paying attention to you always, treating with with the utmost care.. this guy is an ****** if he doesn't try and help this relationship work.
2006-08-28 04:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To fix your relationship and for the sanity of having twins you can leave him NOW!!! RUN!!!
If he dosent appreciate you now, what makes you think things will change? and now your about to have twins, sista you dont need him....
2006-08-28 04:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should of seen the signs be for hand. If he keep's treating you like that, leave him.
2006-08-28 04:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋