I'm only a thirteen year old boy and Mummy keeps saying I've put on weight. She brings it up infront of everyone. Now I'm depressed. And if she asks me something and I say I can't remember she shouts at me. Is she a bully and an evil b****?
2006-08-28 04:48:33 · 12 answers · asked by Andrew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you are making this up. I can't imagine any woman who would treat her child like that.
If this is real, talk to someone other then your mom. Seek out a guidance counselor at school or a favourite aunt or uncle.
Good luck.
2006-08-28 05:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is called verbal abuse. She should not be humiliating you in front of people. Tell her how this makes you feel and if she doesn't stop, talk to your school counselor for advice.
And just so you know, if you're 13 and you're not done growing, the extra weight is a preparation for your body getting ready to grow in height. You're getting ready to change into a man so naturally, you have to have the extra weight so that your body grows in the correct portion. Just try to get a little active and takes some walks if you feel depressed about it.
2006-08-28 05:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i don't think it's right at all of you're mom to say that.. especially in front of people... that's your family business... if other people want to think it, they can think it for themselves.... my mom is overweight.. and i actually just posted a question on what i should do to get her in shape because i don't want to hurt her feelings by saying she's fat. but i'm afraid if i don't do something, she'll get major health issues... maybe this is just her way of trying to help you? i'm not really sure... but if she's so concerned where she always says it.. i'm sure it's just because she wants you to start eating healthier and dieting.. not saying you are fat at all... just talk to your mom about it and tell her how you feel... i'm starting to get depressed because of my mom.. and i feel like if something happens and i don't do anything, it'll be my fault that i should've done something in the first place. that's probably just what your mom was afraid of too. so i don't think she is a bully or an evil b****, that is just her way of getting over this. as i said before, you're probably not that overweight... she just probably wants to stop the least bit before anything happens.. and you're only 13.. this is when puberty happens.. you gain a little weight for a year or two.. then you thin out.. that happened to me.
talk to her. i wish i was as courageous to talk to my mom.
best of luck with everything! i really feel for you.
xox- amanda
2006-08-28 04:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man, your only 13 give yourself a little time,when your about 25-35 you'll be saying Mummy how do I loose this fat belly ??
2006-08-28 04:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by D Grass 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is treating you like you say she is then you have answered your own question. Yes she is a bully and an evil *****.
However, I think you are just making this up to stir up trouble. Shame on you.
2006-08-31 16:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both, tell her to act like a mom and stop acting like a school yard bully. Then stick it up her butt. loose weight and get in better shape than her. After you do get in shape, let her know it was not because you wanted to please her, but because you care more about yourself than she does. I have a mom just like her. I was 140 lb in 11th grade and i was 5 ft 6, she was real nasty to me, i still hate her for treating me badly. Take care of yourself and forget her nasty mouth!
2006-08-28 05:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by I CAN SEE RIGHT THROUGH YOU! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just be trying to get the point to you that she is conderned and would like you to be healthier. She may have a temper problem. If she ever hurts you contact the police.
2006-08-28 05:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by um yea hi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly. But best not to directly accuse her of it. If she really is one, you'll know it when you get in her face!
2006-08-28 04:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by deonne r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just want u to loose a little bit of weight please dont get mad at mummy ok.
2006-08-28 05:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by boselydia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have someone talk to your mom.
2006-08-28 05:12:57 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋