how can you set your mind and heart to stop falling for a guy whom you think is just fooling you?
2006-08-28 04:45:44 · 16 answers · asked by amanda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to move on the action, dont just say it, say it and mean it....find a hobby or something else to do other than think about what you dont have....
2006-08-28 04:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know, but just don't have sex with him or quit having sex with him and you'll find out soon enough if he really loves you. If he stays around then he does and if he doesn't then move on. Also you have to be rational, is there a good reason he's would want to fool you? Are you rich? Do you just have a ride or have a good hookup or you're popular or have something in general that he wants other than sex? If so then withhold that from him as much as you're able and see how long he stays around.
Also, if you're already sure that he's a cheat then you have to completely distract yourself , find something that interests you and quit talking/meeting AND don't let yourself think of him. Good luck, I hope you find exactly what you need.
2006-08-28 11:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mariah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is trying to fool you then he probably isnt the kinda of guy to start falling for. Dont get too involved with someone right away. Get to know them first. that way when you do fall for them it will be because of the right reasons and you know that you are not being fooled.
2006-08-28 11:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop your heart. That's the thing. Ask yourself is this guy really just playing you?
If it's for sure, your heart can mend itself. Mind over matter.
If you're not sure, let him know that you like him and maybe he feels the same way towards you.
Hope everything works out!
2006-08-28 11:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To keep telling yourself that he's only fooling you. You are in love with what you want him to be not what he actually is. If you look at it that way it makes it a little easier. You will never be happy with him.
2006-08-28 11:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant
thats how attraction works
its pretty hard to drop someone
the only thing that works is dumping him fast and ignoring, but that hurts people way too much
you gotta let time tell, wait for the person who he or she isnt fooling with to appear, and you'll b able to tell who it is
just wait
2006-08-28 11:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by beezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very good question. Sounds as though you really want to belive what isn't true. Perhaps you require that your own needs, wants, desires be actually met, rather than hoping that he'll do right by you if you just want it to happen?
2006-08-28 12:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't I have tried. The only suggestion that i have is move out of town. The less you see of this person the easier it is to get over them.
2006-08-28 11:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by JAMIE C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rip that hungry loving heart out of u. and rip his out too, that way he wont be fooling u anymore.
2006-08-28 11:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by popo dean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Delete his # from your phone so u don't have that temptation to call him, and don't pick up his calls......move on, it is really the only way.
Good luck
Jenn
2006-08-28 11:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by Army Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋