2006-08-28 04:42:59 · 41 answers · asked by rick a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would think it is actualy normal. Just because you get older doesnt mean that you are not going to be atracted to what you have always been atracted to. As long as she is legal and old enough to make a concious decision for herself.
2006-08-28 04:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's certainly not wrong it is just very difficult for a 54 year old to find a 20 or 25 year old woman who really likes him (unless he is very rich or famous, that may attract some women). And even if they get together the age difference will throw a lot of obstacles in the way of staying a happy couple.
It only becomes wrong if the man forces a woman against her will or goes after minors. Or if the older one abuses a power position (like teacher-student) just because the emotional mechanisms involved there are misleading and the older person/more mature is supposed to understand and know that and not give in.
2006-08-28 04:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by spaceskating_girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what to say on this i have a rule normally i try to live by. I normally say nothing 2 years older than me and nothing 2 years younger. I am only 26 but when i was 21 this rule was golden. Most girls at 18 (not all ladies, so don't go hating) are still rather childish and not ready to have a meaniful relationship at that age. While women at 24, 25, 26 are looking for one and think that most men at 20, 21, 22 do not know what a meaniful relationship is.
To each their own is what i say but that is your choice the world is so different and people seem to forget they can't help what they like or who they fall in love with. For people to call you a perv is absurd cause last I checked I did not see anyone die and make them king or queen be it to determine if what you feel is wrong or right.
You know what you like be it a bold move in this day and age where everybody feels it is right to judge someone based solely on what others think, but i applaude you for having a choice when so many others live by letting others choose what is best for them.
I think it can work if you met someone mature enough to handle the fact you may die in 10 years maybe even six no one can judge time, but understand most 18 year old girls are not mature enough to carry on a relationship with men their own age at times let alone a man 60-65 years their senior. 21 would be better for you my friend but understand either way it would not be easy.
2006-08-28 05:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by Shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO RICK! I'm 55 an most of my gfs are at least 20 years younger. I'd advise staying over 21 though so you can take them out to a club legally. Contributing to the delinquency of a minor is a serious offense and the cut off age for that is 21.
2006-08-28 04:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well every man gets to a point in which they began to like younger women. It's all apart of the human nature. So no it's not wrong for you to like them, but Many ppl may think that it's werid . To be honest I'm 20years old and i love to date older guys. It's just something about older guys that turns me on. As for you if you do decide to date a younger women make sure her head is on straight for example be able to hold a good conversation, and make sure that she likes you for you and not whats in your pockets. b/c some younger women like older guys just b/c they have huge pockets.
2006-08-28 04:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all men like 18 year olds. They are beautiful and new and innocent (for the most part).
What is wrong is to act on that feeling. It is absolutely unfair to the young women to get involved with someone as old as their father (or older).
2006-08-28 04:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by Bors 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong, but it is a matter of attitude...if you're creepy about it its gross, if its mutual and beautiful it's great!!!!!! As an early twenty something I thought older men were wonderful, I was a bit skeptical about why they are single at that age though and never pursued a relationship with one. Obviously nothing is black and white in this world, good luck (you aren't married are you?-that falls under the creepy department)
2006-08-28 04:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by someone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be like dating your own daughter. Doesn't that shame you even a little? Besides,what does a 54 year old man have in common with a teenager? I don't think it's her mind you have in mind.
2006-08-28 05:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm an older single man and I have a lot of young friends who are girls. But it's not a sex thing it's a friend thing some one they can talk to like they would like to talk to there fathers but can't. They say I'm easy to talk to I don't judge them I listen and give them advice. And in return I get the chance to be around and talk to them a get there point of view on things. I get a good feeling by helping them. And there's no sex involved I know there are some of you that won't believe that but that's O.K.
2006-08-28 05:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't worry about the old guy, but what is up with the 18 year old girl? Does she like looking at an old Wrinkley ball sack, or is she in it for other reasons, like having a father figure or having money?
She is the sick one. Keep a very watchful eye on your wallet with her.
2006-08-28 04:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋