plzz help me!!!
i'll give the guys name so u know whats going on
ok here goes:
i have a bf on the internet and his name it Nick i love him, i think. well i can't go without him, i always miss him and always dream about him!and he doesn't know the other 2
then there is my friend (JJ) which has a crush on me and i do like him but i don't wanna loose him, his to good for me and now he wants me to go on a date with him, i didn't say yes or no and he doesn't know about my bf.
then there is Freddy i went to one of my friends party and every thing was fine intill he came out of his room he is sexy, cute, have beautifull eyes, is in great shape, has a good heart, and comes likes me as well and he kissed me when i said bye. we did have a good praty together but does that even make a diffrence. And he doesn't even know that i have a bf and a friend that has a cruch on me
plz help i don't know what to say or to how to say it to and i can't talk to any of them at all.
what should i do?
2006-08-28 04:25:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
join a convent. as much as you're talking about going on between these three guys, and, by your own account, you can't talk to any of them, the only way to get out without hurting anyone is to not go out with any of them. it seems to me that Freddy ought to be excluded from this list, as he was just a passing fancy at a party and you were attracted physically, not emotionally. As for JJ and Nick, have you ever even met Nick in person? If you haven't sorry hun, he's not your boyfriend. And, JJ, poor JJ, i suggest you consider whether its worth jeopardizing your friendship in the pursuit of something more. if it is, take that chance, and be happy, but if it's not, you have to explain to him that you don't want to lose his friendship, and that you're afraid if you got together and then broke up, things would never be the same between you. good luck!
2006-08-28 04:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be serious with one of them, you should choose which one, because you will just get in bigger and bigger messes if you don't. But to me, it sounds like that there is something missing in them, if you are jumping to the next guy. So I would leave it open, go on a date with JJ, tell Nick you need some space, and go have fun.
2006-08-28 11:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... Online boyfriends are real!!!!!!!! Good job loser! You sound like a whore in training. The only thing you should do, is be with the ONE that fits to best, and its not the "online boyfriend..." Do you really think that he thinks its anything more than simpy talking to someone online??? I am sure he has someone at home, and talking to you online is just fun. Get over that first and foremost. You dont even know him.
2006-08-28 11:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not honest.. You're basically lying to these three guys you're juggling. If you claim that you love them, then they would at least give you their ears to hear you out. You never know what will happen if you never try and tell them. That's the only thing you can do..
2006-08-28 11:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should say sorry to all of them and be single. it sounds like you are not able to make a solid decision about this problem, so no matter what! its going to turn out bad i would start with a clean slate.
2006-08-28 11:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Darkwraith83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget all three and get your head straight. You are a very confused young girl. Focus on your education and doing for yourself. Worry about a "real" boyfriend later.
2006-08-28 11:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them all. T
ell your mom and dad you love them and that you want to be closer to them.
Concentrate all your effort on education.
This is what you need. That is what is important.
Not the boyfriends....
2006-08-28 11:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by Marvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks you're not ready to commit?
Just go out and have fun... forget about relationships...
2006-08-28 11:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on dates with all of them and see what you really think of them
2006-08-28 11:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by rick a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your f.u.c.k.e.d............................ and your probably 12. You love someone from the internet? Then that explains all.........
save this, grow up, look at it in a few years and have a good laugh!
2006-08-28 11:30:33 · answer #10 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋