Daughter Porn Movie?

Question

My daughter age 23 told me last last week that she has been making Porn movies. Today I received a package from her with the 11 DVDs she has made. I have looked at some and was shocked to see how much they turned me on and excited me sexually.. These are not soft core porn but real hard core, with men , women and the last two i saw her with dogs. My question is what should I do? we have always had a level of honesty between us, but this has really shocked me???

for the person who just wrote that he doesnt believe me, BELIEVE me she has sent them and they are as described. Also shes sent them Ive looked briefly at them, not all, but i will be doing so .

Answer 1

This sounds like a load of BS.

I am glad your daughter can be honest with you, but I highly doubt ANY woman would SEND her DAD pornos with her as the star. I think you are full of crap, and yes, i think you should NOT watch those movies anymore.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I like the idea of moving the computer into the front room of the house and removing all the curtains. Also try facing the screen to a window so everyone can see just watch she's looking at. What you can also do is set up a password and lock it before you leave, or ask an expert how to do this: have him set it up so that by merely pressing a button on your keybord, you are connected to her screen and can see what she's looking at.(This is what my parents did so i couldn't look at anything bad) If these don't work, then wait it out. One of the most likely reasons se looking at it is because it's forbidden and she can. SO let her get bored with it. After a while, it'll become just plain boring. There's only so many **** sites she can access free. And if your afraid she'll steal money to buy access to more sites, take all your cards with you.

Answer 4

You're lucky to have such open communication with your daughter. I don't know if I could have done the same with my Dad even though we are fairly open about things like that.

On the other hand, I tend to think though that she's looking for more attention from you. The mere fact that most women involved in porn have had histories of abuse and/or neglect from their fathers shows that this is an industry powered by insecure women seeking male approval. I know there are some ecceptions, as there always are, but we're talking generally here.

Maybe when she was little there were some issues in your life that prevented you from being there as much as you could have or maybe you were there physically, but you weren't mentally due to some other issues. There are endless scenerios.... but one thing is for sure. You need to talk with her about why she is pursuing this sort of career.

Do not judge her descisions, just show your concern and find out what is she is seeking here. What need she is satisfying with this type of behavior.

I can speak from personal experience and tell you that there is definately a high that accompanies knowing that thousands of men are watching you and lusting after you and that is what I seek.... an affirmation of my desirability. Your daughter may feel the same way, but, her having sent you the DVDs, tells me there is more to it. She is not looking for attention from just any men... she is looking for attention and affirmation from YOU.

Answer 5

The poster that said that all women in porn have problems really just doesn't know what she's talking about. In fact most of these people are just recoiling from their own issues, it has nothing to do with you or your daughter.

It sounds like your daughter wanted to share something that has been a big part of her life with you. It doesn't mean she's sick or anything, Porn is just as hard a job as any other and people who do porn are no more sick or weird than people who work at Burger King.

That she shared them with you is a proud child wanting not to exclude her father from a very significant aspect of her life. I would take it as a gesture that she wants you to know what's going on with her. If it shocks you tell her that, but I hope you would be supportive of her choices.

Think of how much courage it took for her to share this part of her life with you! Would you have rather she kept her whole life secret from you?

I know it's a difficult idea to adjust to, but your daughter is reaching out to you and seeking your approval. You don't have to approve of her career choice, but remember that's a different thing from not approving of her. Or maybe you don't approve of her?

Answer 6

If you are the actual parent of this 23 year old girl. You both need your head examined. The fact that your daughter thinks making porn is OK, or at the very least that she wants you to see it, i think you two got problems that only the most skilled Dr. can help you with. Get help, or just be quiet, you are making the rest of us normal humans sick!

Answer 7

I think it is not your daughter that has the immediate problem its you how can you sit and say that you have watched them and got turned on!!!! your sick!!!! As for your daughter hope she made good money off it as you will need it, your or your daughter have no self respect for yourselves maybe you should have done your parenting a bit better but maybe you had issues with your family etc abuse.

Answer 8

I don't think you should watch them anymore. Not if you're daughter is turning you on with dogs....just tell her that well....I don't know, just...umm...I don't know, I can't help you on that. Just don't want the pornos anymore. Plus, it sounds like alot of crap to me. But, I'm glad your daughter is sharing her lifestyle with you, you deserve to know. Just be supportive, and you don't have to watch the dvds to be supportive either.

Answer 9

Don't watch The DVDs that's gross your daughter turns you on that is just nasty

Answer 10

send them to me,except the dog ones,thats sick,your both adults,you should no the next step,abviously she sent them for a reason besides just letting you know thats what she does. if it please you,tell her,and ask for more of them, youll tickle her fancy with that statement.