because they are attractive, nice or intelligent that women will automaticllay want them. People can have great friendships and like a person but don't necessarily feel a physical attraction. It's not tha you are a bad person or unattractive to the ooposite sex. it depends on the chemistry you have. What do you think?
2006-08-28 04:12:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay... for some of you guys trying to bash my question...This question was not meant to bash men in anyway so I don't appreciate the smart comments. i posted this questions because I have seen a 1000 and 1 questions from men on here saying that they are smart, intelligent, nice, good looking and women don't like them. This isn't meant as a diss, but more of an explanation that just because your a good person doesn't mean everyone will have that chemistry with you.
2006-08-28 04:25:51 · update #1
Bubba
just because you are nice it doesn't mean you are THE ONE. Nice men may be the best thing since apple pie, but that woman has to have a sort of chemistry with you and attraction beyond friendship. The bad boys sometimes have it and sometimes they don't. Badboys don't always get the girl.
2006-08-28 06:57:29 · update #2
I totally agree. However, some men just have huge egos and think they are God's gift to women and how dare we not want them like that! lol They think if we say they are just a friend that it is like a slap in the face, when in all reality, a friendship will more than likely last longer than a romantic relationship.
2006-08-28 04:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree. I have talked with this dude from a yahoo chatroom and added him cuz he seemed normal enough. But soon after I got pics from him and he was all wondering why I don't make him feel special and all this because he is smart and good looking. I was like, I have told you a million times not looking for a bf or anything like that right now. And to this day he is still pissed at me about this. That he'll forever just be the "nice" guy. Not my fault if you can't accept the friendship. And I personally think it is the most basic thinking you could ever have, I mean if you are so smart and all this you would take the friendship for what it is, and think it was great to have more female insight instead of just being so outrightly offended all the time. Some dudes are just total prima donnas.
2006-08-28 04:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the first sentence u put forward. Sometime getting in a rel'ship with someone doesnot depend on looks but because both parties love each other for different reasons. Thats shows how much love exist within each other. Someguys Feel that if they are cute they can get any girl they want cause d girls would fall for them once they make their move. But personality and background counts as well and guys should be inform about that.
2006-08-28 04:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by sweetbiscuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all part of confidence which is one of the biggest factors in the dating game.
You see when I think of all the beautiful women I have dated, and will date in the future, I couldnt care less if any one individual girl doesnt show interest.
So its not about thinking you like us, its about not worrying whether you do or not. Why should we let exceptions to the rule dent our confidence, no way!!!
2006-08-28 04:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there are girls out there that are shallow enough to like a person based solely on their looks
most men then take for granted that all women "want" them just because they're attractive
2006-08-28 04:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by rsuavez66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never had a female friend who i didn't want to sleep with if given the chance. that's just the way guys think. if i want just a friend it would be a guy
2006-08-28 04:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by scott kkkk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the male ego. Man think that they are gods gift to woman. Its the other way around.
2006-08-28 04:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Dorrie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
see that still doesn,t answer my question it not that i crowed them it,s not that i go around saying i look good but what i,m saying is this why do they go from someone who is nice to someone that treat them like crap
2006-08-28 06:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by bubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some lameo wemon are superficial and will pretend to love em
2006-08-28 04:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by Charlie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm? guys are confodent
2006-08-28 04:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋