I met my current boyfriend at Hollister, where he was recruiting and he stole my number off of a recruiting sheet. Months later, I finally gave him a chance and decided to go to one of his parties (I kind of thought he was a player, so I was just checking it out.) Well, I got there, and he was excited to see me, but every time he came over to talk to me, this other girl kept pulling him away. Long story short, eventually him and the girl disappeared, and I was talking to one of his friends in the kitchen, who said "He has slept with soo many girls!" Me and my friends left, and the next day, he apologized and we went to another party (so we could rub it in his face.) He had a hickey on his neck, I'm like... OOOK, wtf. We kept hanging out after that, and a month or two later we started going out. I asked him what happened that night, and he said nothing, she just gave me a hickey--that's it.
Well, I previously found out (he asked me to check his messages on MySpace for him,...
2006-08-28 04:11:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
... and I got curious, and stumbled upon an older message..), I found a message where he was arguing with the girls (who gave him the hickey) friend.. and the girls friend was bitching at him because he had told the friend that he liked her, and then he had slept with the girl that gave him a hickey. So this means it's possible that he lied. But he also told me he's only slept with 4 (one being me) girls. If he said Ashley (hickey girl) wasn't one of them, could his friend be right in saying he has slept with several girls?
Should I confront him? Or let it slide? It's not so much that he did possibly do more with her than he admitted, but it's the fact that he lied to me. Now I don't know what to believe.
2006-08-28 04:14:28 · update #1
Britt - I think you know the answer to this one girlfriend. Run, don't walk, away from this guy. He is a loser. Everything about what you said screams player or worse. You deserve better. There are plenty of good guys out there that will treat you well.
2006-08-28 04:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by Denise 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could ask him about that if it's really bothering you. He's a player and they all start off nice at first. I wouldn't even be continuing talking to him if I were you. Your feelings could get hurt and you'll wound up getting played. Be careful and watch your back because you now know what he's capable of. There are plenty of fish in the sea so go out there and meet new people. He's not worth being your boyfriend since he's talking to a lot of females. Move on and find somebody better.
2006-08-28 04:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, no problem, he'll be true to you. How could you possible doubt that you and your bod will be different than all the rest. That hickey was just that and they weren't getting it on when he got it and the Pope isn't Catholic, and rivers don't run down stream, and bears don't do doo doo in the woods.
2006-08-28 04:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player. They always seem nice and innocent at first. That's how they get so many girls. Trust me.
If you already don't know if you can't trust him, you can't, and there's no use in persuing anything further with him. Save yourself the headaches and find someone a little more worthwhile. Sounds like he has enough on his plate already.
2006-08-28 04:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you willing to listen to a player that you'll know he'll just lie to you to time after time until you really caught him in the act redhanded?
There is nothing "Potential" about your situation, you got involved in a complicated and mess-up relationship that is problematic before you got in and much worse now.
Time to go and get out, get him out of your life.
2006-08-28 04:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if something sounds too good to be true it usually is.....if your instincts are telling you there could be problems then there most likely will be.... Trust in yourself, you sound intelligent enough to have either heard other stories or read about the same situation somewhere. Players got to play.
2006-08-28 04:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by l00kstwice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes cheating on you to me and he slept with that girl that night for sure
2006-08-28 04:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by DeaconFrost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he's in elementary terms a toolbag and probly have been given stomped into the floor. he would be ok. interior the interim, discover a real guy. you will no longer have those issues and you would be chuffed in mattress too.
2016-09-30 02:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got ur self into this bad situation
get yourself out of it
he s no good for u
all the hints were there
2006-08-28 04:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened before the two of you were together, so it is officially none of your business (unless she has a communicable disease that she passed to him).
2006-08-28 04:17:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋