My boyfriend wants me to do a swingers video with him, are these ok to do ?

Question

My boyfriend wants to do a swingers video with him and other couples/men. He wants me to dress up as a nurse or french maid for the video as well. I want to know if the video would be ok to do ? Good or bad experiences ??

Answer 1

You ought to do it, I suppose it's a rather thrilling experience, it most surely is for most who'd watch it..Just get into it knowing that it could be out free on the net or at your local "porn-O-mart", I wouldn't care(but then I'm a guy) and I don't think any less of pornstars(kinda hold them in high regard actually)
Nurse and Maid costumes are hot, and a varied experience is the best experience. Please post a link on the net and notify us!!!

Answer 2

It's perfectly ok to do porn with your boyfriend. He obviously loves you very much, otherwise he would not ask you to participate in such a deeply personal and loving experience. Afterall, he asked YOU, not someone else. He's obviuously waited until the right woman, you, came along before trying something like this. Go ahead, have this first wonderful experience together. It matters not what your attire is. Dress in stockings, garter belt, pushup bra with exposed nipples, high heels, and a Kommandandt hat and do your best Charlotte Rampling imitation. Nothing should be off limits here. Be free to try anything he feels that would bring out your innermost beauty. These things may include, bi, anal, *******, interracial, bd/sm, bestiality, infantilism, needles, hot wax, suspension, fisting, spanking, caning, hair pulling, azz slapping, verbal abuse, humiliation, nipple pinching, nipple pulling, nipple rolling, tit squeezing, milking, electrical stimulation, shrimping, masturbation, piercing, tattooing, analingus, cunnilingus, airlingus, felching, shaving, cutting, branding, digiterotica, autoerotica, fellatio, snowballing, or any other activity he has so lovingly chosen just for you, his princess. There can be no bad experience here, go for it. We'll all be rooting for you as you take the first steps toward sexual freedom, something many people will never be able to do, but you will, and we'll all be better for it. And above all, let us know where we'll be able to share in your joy as you become a free woman.

Answer 3

Sure, someday when you have settled down and living a good life, a video comes back to haunt you and your family. Maybe you can get lucky and be one of the widest circulated sex vedios on the internet. Maybe you can loan someone a large amount of money to keep them from sending a copy to all your freinds and family. Sure if you dont mind being viewed as a SL*T. Oh and dont worry about self respect the video can take that away to... other than that Go for it, your only careless and stupid once in a while right?

Answer 4

Well it depends. Ask urself if u could trust ur boyfriend enough. I mean Ive met guys that have done that with their girlfriends and after a break up he ends up showing the video to their friends. So think about it really good. U're putting ur reputation at risk. If you know he's not that type of guy then, hey go ahead!

Answer 5

Swinging is a complicated element. For some it is a delusion that sounds stable interior the mattress room and fades as quickly as intercourse is over. those human beings ought to save it a delusion! For others it is something they think of approximately outdoors the mattress room and fairly decide for to aim. If it is delusion beware! If it a real want then i might propose shifting forward slowly with rules. as far as rules I propose which you and your better half take a seat and communicate over what's suitable and what isn't. once you have this talk 2 innovations: a million) No alcohol and a couple of) no longer for the duration of foreplay. Have this verbal exchange mutually as sober and outdoors the mattress room. in case you the two agree outdoors the mattress room and being sober it is something which you fairly decide for to pursue then communicate as i discussed already the guidelines, take time to discover the acceptable guy or woman or couple, defend yourselves bodily and emotionally, no interior sight human beings (defend your popularity). Get to comprehend the folk you have an interest in. devour dinner first. every physique who who tries to tension you into leaping into mattress are risky they are purely involved in intercourse and ought to care much less approximately your thoughts or your relationship as a pair. interior the previous we got here upon couples on swinger sites who have been exceedingly commonly used human beings. that they had families, jobs and a existence that they had to guard. those are this manner of individuals you ought to hunt for. they have something to lose and decide for discretion.

Answer 6

Are you a licensed nurse? What if you are not and someone gets hurt on the set and comes to you for help? Can you help them? I think the nursing outfit will make things confusing. I say you dress up like Dustin Hoffman in the 'Rain Man'. I can tell you know the part of being a complete idiot well.

Answer 7

In how many different languages can you say "NO!"? I hope in enough different dialects to get yourself out of his sight and out of your life. These things are never ever good for anything except the chance of blackmail or shame later in your life. Go the park and swing on the playground equipment, but never put your personal intimate life in such perverse circumstances. Get some counseling for your low self-esteem. You should never have even considered to these uncivilized scenes. Good luck. I feel like there is hope for you because you had the good sense to ask.

Answer 8

The only issue would be if you ever decide to become a political figure in the future, that video will resurface and ruin your chances. Or if this relationship ever ended, how would you like your new boyfriend to see it? All good questions that you need to think through. Good luck and have fun.

Answer 9

Check out my 360. and my hiddenYahoo group. I need time to think. Tell me, is this film for him? or is he trying to use you? Inversion and stings are the way to go if you are being used. Don't look at my site, especially if you are under IQ 79. Most of my guests have a hedonistic169 IQ by Mensa. Hedonists choose philosophical intellect over possessive destruction. All rules wilt, but don't lie to me. Tony in paradise.

Answer 10

It's totally up to you, we can not tell you what to do. this is a touchy issue. I mean, sounds fun but I don't know if you are strong enough (mentally) to be OK at the moment and after. Some people get very jealous, some embarrassed so... is up to you! just be sure this is what to want, and that you are willing to see your boyfriend doing "the dance" with somebody else...