I mean yea dont get me wrong dont do it in the first week but like a month or 2 dating go for it some people wait 3 month or even up to years making there spouse wait i dont understand why?
2006-08-28 04:02:46 · 26 answers · asked by lola 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like to go with each relationship the way that it feels right. There have been times when (dare I say it) I slept with someone the first night I met the person~ Still together with one of those, and it's been 16 fun years. Others I've taken a good long time to get there with... I had a beautiful love with someone... and all we did was kiss and make out for 2 years... the sex was great when it finally did happen but I had no desire to rush into it. I think it's important to follow the energy that exists between two people rather than make strict rules that are supposed to cover the entire game and all the players. Peace out~!
2006-08-28 04:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by loLagrrrl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a spouse? I did not make mine wait and I regret it everyday. I think that he would have more respect for me as a person if I had had respect for myself and made him wait. The real question is why dont most people make a big deal out of sex? Sex is supposed to be something that can bring you closer to your partner and something you do because you love that person. Not something you do because you are in the mood and have nothing better to do.
2006-08-28 04:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK this is what I think about sex and this is my own opinion I believe sex is very personal. Some ppl would rather use it as pleasure and just sex for the need or others use it on a more personal level like only do it when there in love or when there ready. Its getting to sloppy all around to me its intimate only do it when your in love or know the person enough. And we all know how dangerous it is out there now a days. Think about it when your in Love sex feels sooo good. and when your just having sex just because you met some one sure it feels good but that's it nothing more and god knows what you have catched. So anyways hope I helped good bye.
2006-08-28 04:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you would make your spouse wait for sex. Sex is supposed to bring 2 loving people closer.
2006-08-28 04:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by mrsfcsn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you said making your spouse wait....what are they married already? Some people wait while they are dating because it is personal preference you do what you want and they will do the same. Get over it
2006-08-28 04:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by thejenjens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know a man before sleeping with him. A month is really not long enough because people tell you what they want you to know. And that may not be the truth. Slow down life is to short to waste it by sleeping with the wrong person.
2006-08-28 04:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by Dorrie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most people are sex addicts and dont have a life. especially men. thats all they talk about and think about. they dont realize it is a problem. theres more to life than just sex. i never understood men and why sex is so important. sometimes it such a big deal to them they forget what life is all about. its a shame. but until these people stop making it an issue than they will be miserable
2006-08-28 04:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sex is more than just a biological action (like animals when they have sex) so it is a bit complicated. Sex is best enjoyed when it is done according to the standards of the One who gave humans sex. Sex is best enjoyed between a man and a woman who have made a committment to one another that is bigger than their sex life and lasts until one of them dies.
2006-08-28 04:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people take sex seriously and they don't just want to give it up to anybody and then you have those that incorporate thier dating techniques from television shows thinking they'll be a better person if they act like their favorite actor's character.
I say sleep with whomever whenever be free
2006-08-28 04:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by misshayward 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It develop into never a brilliant deal for me, even with the shown fact that I even have continually been careful and risk-free. i think of the reason that's this manner of vast deal is created from that's because of the fact a good number of folk are no longer careful or risk-free. look at what share teenager pregnancies there are, to no longer point out STD's besides as sexual abuse. additionally even if some females could have intercourse without emotion, maximum can't, and of course develop into linked to the guy the she is having intercourse with. that's no longer even a decision that's a chemical organic and organic ingredient that happens on your innovations. So having causal intercourse could be emotionally volatile to many females. (no longer all, merely maximum) that's no longer the comparable for adult males. it may additionally create yucky circumstances the place the female needs to be in a dating with the guy, however the guy develop into merely doing what his animal instincts tell him to do, and that's sleep with as many females as available. The "slut" "whore" area of course is reserved for women, and that is going decrease back to a time while females had no rights and have been in fact assets of the adult males of their lives. Society hasn't fairly gotten over that one yet. i think of human beings could desire to be accountable and make sensible judgements for themselves and not decide others for making diverse judgements. all of us could desire to persist with our very own paths even with each and every little thing! i think of you have a solid attitude. lots of people who chosen to keep themselves are intollerent of folk who make diverse judgements! So thumbs as much as you!
2016-12-11 16:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋