ive met a guy before and he didn't call me anymore as someone he likes but ever since we are good friends. i just noticed that lately he's like making a move on me. he keeps asking me to go out with him. i'm tired reasoning. how can i tell him that i don't see him in that level (future bf) anymore.
2006-08-28 04:00:28 · 15 answers · asked by rassia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
D A M N I T. I said no. Are you deaf?
2006-08-28 04:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been there before and honestly it's not easy. Think of an introduction, then gently tell him the truth... try making it jokingly or slowly. It's up to you, or what you feel is more comfortable. Make sure that he got the message - clearly.
Believe me the sooner you do it the better. And get ready for answering the question "why"... in case he asks.. which they always do.
2006-08-28 11:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by cHaRm 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He will notice that naturally, just give him some time but don't act cold as ice too so as not to look unfriendly. You two can still be good friends. He will wise up and calm down if he doesn't wanna lose you as a friend. Be patient & good luck.
2006-08-28 11:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just like this: I don't see you on that level (future bf) anymore. Be blunt.
2006-08-28 11:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by Darkwraith83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By just telling him. You actually will be doing him a favor by not wasting any more time on you. He can then go for someone else and just be friends with you.
2006-08-28 11:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what you wrote in that last sentence. Say it pleasantly, with a smile, and you might add "sorry," if you want to.
Then be FIRM about it.
2006-08-28 11:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by Hermit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well thats usually tough to do but you should do it by saying "i dont think this relationship would really work because i just like you as a friend"
2006-08-28 11:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
jus tell him that u only like him like a friend, and taht u can make a good friend and that u hope he does the same.
2006-08-28 11:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by el_oso_candeloso 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Maybe we should just be friends?" It's a little harsh, but the simplest and most effective way probably.
2006-08-28 11:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by lonely_wolf 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just flat out tell him, that thanks for the offer, but that you'd rather remain friends with him...Nothing more. Im sure he will be happy with honesty.
2006-08-28 11:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋