Hi every1, here's the story:
Im 15 and have known this girl in my class for about 2 yrs. She went out with my best m8 at the time for a few weeks which is how I met her, then she dumped him. I went bowling with the same mate a few days after they broke up and she was there wantin a snog from me. I stupidly said no and regreted it ever since. But since then, she seems to like me as a friend even though I like her as something more.
She lives about 30/40 mins away from me and haven't seen her since I broke up frm school 5 weeks ago. I want to ask her out but just haven't got the courage to. She might say no but I don't want to ruin this 2-yr friendship I've had with her.
When we txt and call each other we always say we luv each other but I really do mean it - I think she means it just as a friend.
Please help me, I'm confused and dnt know what to do!
ps sorry for the essay lol!
2006-08-28 03:54:19 · 11 answers · asked by justageneralguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The friendship has already changed if you hold these feelings for her; to take the plunge and ask her out cant alter it any further really. The key is to be honest with her; sit down with her and tell her that there's something you want to say because you'll always regret it if you dont. If she says no then at least you've got some closure and it'll be time to move on, but if she's as nice a person as you say she is then you should still have her as a friend. If she says yes then it's happy days!
You've already shown her what sort of person you are; she obviously likes what she's seen by the fact she's a friend. Take confidence from this and ask the question. Good luck mate.
2006-08-28 06:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ethereal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see a problem . ask her out first as a friend. do something that both of u like and make sure two of u do it alone meaning no other friends with u. most relationships start with friendship. all u have to do is ask her out. the way she reacted towards u at the bowling alley means she like u any way and maybe she also doesnt wan tto break the friendship thats y she is not approaching u. so u be the first and best of luck to both of u ,
ps.. let us know how it went
2006-08-28 04:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Its the only human thing to do. Say that you really like her more than a friend and If she could accept and be your boyfriend, If she would say Yes. Tell her your not pressuring her but You have been with her so long that you think that you know her in a way that really wants to make you say that you love her. She must really like you to call you and tell you she luv's you. You must make your move.
2006-08-28 04:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just ask her to go bowling again the next time you text her - flirt with her, without making it over obvious that you want to take things further - you should be able to read her body language and tell if shes interested in taking it further or not. If you cant tell - go to kiss her - if she rejects you, just say you thought it was what she wanted - if she accepts - wayhey!!
2006-08-28 03:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God, how I long for the days when the biggest worry in my life was whether some silly girl from school liked me or not.
Woe, woe, treble woe.
As for your problem, I really would not worry about it. Go and see a prostitute and forget about the girl in question: that will cheer you up.
2006-08-28 04:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by Here's Danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think when you text/ring her next that you should tell the girl how you feel about her tell what ever she decides that you will be cool with it the girl can only say yes or no so give it a go
good luck hope you get this girl
2006-08-28 04:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh..ive been in this situation!! she probably does know you like her but doesnt know just how much. all you have to do is text her and ask her to go to the cinema or sumthing and if she says no thinking its a date jst pretend you meant as a group...therefore no emabarassing moments!!
2006-08-28 05:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do would be to tell her how you feel. She told you how she felt and you turned her down. I you love her then you will ask her out.
2006-08-28 03:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look im 15,why hang around and want your mates sloppy seconds .get out there and pull other people that actually live nera you.:P.x
2006-08-28 04:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by bex j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go out with ur best friends exes trust me, buck her then chuck her.
2006-08-28 04:07:00 · answer #10 · answered by lee e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋