Whenever I bring them up, he talks crap and Im tired of this. they are my friends. they are some of the nicest people i know, just b/c they are gay doesnt mean he has the right to judge them. I say, let people live how they want, but he doesnt see it that way. He thinks its right for him to judge them, im tired of him talking crap about them. what can i do?
2006-08-28 03:53:26 · 17 answers · asked by california gurlie poo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well obviously he is not a keeper...dont you want someone who has an open mind? I am a guy (straight) and I do not mind gay people at all...to me when it comes to sexuality all I have to say is "to each his own" (or her). I would actually feel better knowing that my girl was hanging around gay males than straight ones...not because I dont trust her, cause if i didnt then there would be no reason for us to be together, but because you never know when a guy might try to do something with her...I hope that your boyfriend either changes his ways, or that you find a smarter guy...Good Luck.
2006-08-28 04:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation. My best friend is gay and my boyfriend is always talking bad about him. I have known my best friend for about 10 yrs and my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 yrs. It may come to a point where i will have to choose. I just really hate it and it agrivates me that he speaks this way about my friend, so i know how you feel. I know it's not much of an answer, but I know it's so upsetting!
2006-08-28 10:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you, he'll put up with them, no matter what. (even if he doesnt see eye to eye with them) he still has to respect you, he is your man right? you'd respect him if put in the same situation and not cause problems wouldnt you?
just tell him straight out how you feel, make sure he understands these are your friends, and he cant be mean to them how would he like it if you were mean to his friends and no its no different just because your guy friend is gay.
2006-08-28 10:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by Xavier's Mommy ツ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not right to judge ppl based on their sexuality if he cant respect ya friends get rid of him ive got mates who are gay and bi and i ould never stand for a guy putting them down been their and its a hard situation to be in
2006-08-28 10:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is gay, and though my b/f doesn't agree with it, he keep his mouth shut out of respect for me. If your guy isn't doing that for you, he doesn't respect you. And what's the point of being with someone who can't even accept your friends? I feel that your friends are part of who you are, and if people don't them, they won't get you.
2006-08-28 10:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him either he acepcts your gay friends or he does not accepct you. say you are a package deal with your friends. I love gay people...they are some of the funniest, as well. I do not agree with their lifestyle but they probably would not agree with mine either . to each their own and lets all unite
2006-08-28 10:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though his train of thought is right, he shouldn't talk crap on them.
2006-08-28 10:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have allot of friends that choose to love ( date ) what ever. And i find i can count on them more, they are always honest with me. They always treat everyone with respect. i am not guy or do i want to be.
2006-08-28 11:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur boyfrnd z a little bit weird.. sorry but wt da hell z wrong with him?? gay guyz r fine.. i mean, ive gay frnd 2 n hez so nice n friendly.. ok tell ur guy 2 cool it n dun hang out with ur frndz f he doesn' feel like it n f he does, he shouldn' b so mean
2006-08-28 11:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he talks one more crap adout your freinds break up with him couse then he is going to hurt your freinds feelings also get a boyfreind that dosent talk crap adout your gay freinds
2006-08-28 10:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋