why is it that women think its ok to vandalize mens things when he breaks up with them or cheats on them? you?

Question

never hear of men doing this. you hear so many stories of cars getting bashed in with a baseball bat or apartments vandalized?
seems to be the exclusive domain of women. whats wrong with them?

Answer 1

It's not OK... It's pretty juvinile, but in the heat of the moment, it seems to be a good idea. I have never destroyed a man's property, but I have whapped 'em upside the head in front of their friends. Theres an unwritten rule I think everyone should know... You DON'T mess with ANYONE'S car. No matter what they did to you. Get them fired from their job or something... at least it won't cost him $30,000 to get another one.

Answer 2

Serious sex inferiority complex. I can only think that because guys typically do not do such vile things. If they had any respect at all for any other human, this kind of act wouldn't be committed. I have had friends who broke up in the nicest ways possible still get their cars attacked by their exes. They know it is precious thing to the man, so why do it? If it is so hard to hear of guys doing this, what other reason can there be?

Vandalism is never the answer or ever ok. Why is it people go to jail for such things but never for cheating on a girlfriend or breaking their heart?

Answer 3

ok if a guy cheats - he deserves everything he gets.
If he just breaks up - ok I agree vandalism is not the answer. Having said that its always women that get more emotionall involved in relationships etc, and therefore we hurt that bit more when things end. Personally speaking Ive never turned to vandalism, but I have felt like it!!!!

Answer 4

Well I've never done it but had an ex boyfriend do it to me about 3 months ago. We had been broke up for a few months and he found out I was seeing someone and put a brick through my sons bedroom window and flattened my tire. He isn't man enough to pay for what he did either even though he still tries to beg me back. So now my kids started school without any new clothes because I had to pay for this jackasses stupidity. Yeah that's a real man for ya. I don't think its a gender based things some people are just stupid and do before they think.

Answer 5

I knew this girl in college. Her boyfriend (the nicest guy anyone could ever imagine) would visit most every weekend, and Friday night was always lovey dovey. But by Sunday afternoon, and sometimes as early as Saturday, she would throw a hissyfit, and start throwing stuff all over the place. He would quietly leave and say goodbye to me as he walked down the hall and out the door.

Then he'd say "see ya Friday"

Answer 6

well i would not do that and i am a women but the reason they do is because they are very hurt and they want u to feel the same way i think there are better way of getting back at men but u should be happy to know all woman are not like that

Answer 7

nothing is wrong with them,
its not only women that vandalize guys things,
my ex totally trashed my house, put holes in my walls, smashed the windows, smashed up my car the list keeps going

Answer 8

men cheat on women and they don't think we will get mad, or get even in the end? Women destroy the mans most prize possesion because it obviously means more to them than the women. Perhaps if it deals with relationship women are distructive, but in my city its the teenagers that destroy stuff.

Answer 9

Because they want to make you feel bad. As bad as you made them feel. You can call it revenge or retribution, but mostly it's because they feel that their feelings and pain are being neglected, and the guy is sitting in his fortress, impervious to all emotion. So they do things to hurt him, so that he feels pain too.

Not all girls will do that. But I have noticed that the guys who are jerks end up with girls who like destruction of property. None of my exes ever did that to me, and I couldn't imagine them behaving like that. I chose the girls I was with wisely, and made sure to leave them as gently as possible, if I was the one doing the leaving at all.

Answer 10

I don't know, women are vindictive and immature and emotional. like children, but if a woman destroys any of my things, I'm heading straight for her shoe closet...