My boy friend always asks me things such as 'do you like me' , 'are you happy being with me', etc. Just recently I have started paying attention to him and realized that he tells me those things (how he feels about me) most of the time, but I am not the kind of person that speaks much about feelings. Sometimes it gets akward, as he says things and looks at me and I feel under the heavy pressure and obligation of saying the same, even though I wont feel like doing so. What should I do? Does it mean that if I dont say what he wants to hear he will go find someone else? Usually I guess it is the opposite, the woman is all romantic and the guy is more practical. In my case it is exactly the opposite. Can things work this way? What can take me out of those akward situations without etiher being rude or surrendering to his 'manipulation'?
2006-08-28 03:44:25 · 9 answers · asked by Graça 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how you really feel about him. Do you actually care about him very much just aren't very keen on talking about your feelings, or do you not actually feel the same way about him as he does about you. If you do care about him, then instead of saying things, do very nice things for him that will make him happy. And when you do, tell him that you find it hard to say the words, but you really care about him and prefer to show your affection in different ways.
If you don't actually care about him that much, then it may be time to move on. You have to figure out how you really feel and then act accordingly.
Best of luck :)
2006-08-28 03:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriends seems to be insecure. If you can't say the same things, just tell him. Maybe you don't talk to him as much as he would like so that's why he asks you all the questions. But tell him that you aren't really a talker and hope that it works out. I think that time will make it ok. If it's meant to be, it will be. Don't go nuts over it. I think that if you can communciate with him, it will turn out ok. If not, just forget it. He might not be for you anyway.
2006-08-28 03:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by fran c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the respond is probable a huge no. the international of arguing over the info of religion is a pointless one that has no end, in certainty that no-one is hardship-free with of the respond. whether, we are able to make recommended judgements on the problem, and from the attitude of somebody who would not enroll in the assumption of religion in any respect (I won't even settle for agnostic as a non secular label, I in simple terms do no longer renowned the ought to have one among those label) it sort of feels no longer likely there is an all loving entity watching over us all. you ought to use this manner of realisation to make your existence greater useful nonetheless, hating your self, your existence and the cruelty of the international is all purely a count of attitude that can get replaced with some extreme attempt.
2016-10-01 00:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by minick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him like it is and don't I repeat don't say things cause you think you are obligated. It's better to be rude and/or crude then say things you don't feel.
2006-08-28 03:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds to needy to me. He is too insecure. Find a new boyfriend.
2006-08-28 03:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don' t feel the same way about him then you and him don't belong together
2006-08-28 03:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is insecure...don't ever say what u don't feel..maybe it's time he goes...
2006-08-28 03:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by justmenothinelse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go grab some viagra or something
2006-08-28 03:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 him abt it.........make him understand
2006-08-28 03:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by AmbY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋