Ladies need advice on a female friend of mine?

Question

my female friend and i are single. in the past month we have been hanging more frequently. but in the past week and a half, we have been hanging out more, calling each other everyday at work we talk for atleast 2 hours a day and later in the evening we talk for another hour or so. just the other day i was chi chattin with her and it was time for me to leave work, i told her i was going to meet my friend (this friend is a friend of ours from high school, she) my female friend told me that by i hanging out with her is making her jealous. and i was shock to hear that but i told her to not worry about it no one can replace her then i told her i will call her that night but i remember she was going to be busy so i told her to call me and she agree but she never called and now i havent heard from her and it has been 3 days. UPDATE ON THIS STORY. she told me she met this guy and he is sweet. however she tells me that she missed talking to me

she also told me that "wow it has been a long time since we saw each other" actually it has been 7 days. then we got into relationship topic, i told her i m not ready for a relationship and that i met girls but i cant hold on to them because they want more than what i want and i cant give them that. so i told her i dont need a girl to care about me that much. and she responded but i care about you. as a joke i told her u r my undercover girlfriend and she laught and said shhhhhh dont tell no more. which i found strange because she usally doesnt play along
what should i do or think

thanks

Answer 1

i think she did like you... and then when you didn't take the bait.. ie)asking her out on a date instead of hanging out with your highschool she-chum.... then maybe she decided it was time for her to move on... and she is trying to, but feelings for you still linger... if your going to make a move, do it asap before anything with her and this new guy happens...

Answer 2

I knew this guy, my best friend, he started dating another woman and I was EXTREMELY jealous! But I didn't say anything. Then I started dating someone, he got jealous, he didn't say anything but it was obvious. Shortly after we became friends with "benefits" which made us even more jealous of everything else. Long story short.. we have been married for quite some time now. He is still my best friend and I wouldn't have it any other way. I just wish we hadn't gone through the heartache of the "others"
So if you are feeling put out by this new guy, let her know. Sounds like what she wants is you but that you weren't giving off the vibe that you felt the same. If you do... let her know. It is WELL worth it. I am so happy with my best friend!

Answer 3

I think that sometimes people start to become so close that the fine line dividing friendship and romance can become faded or blurred.... A lot of the time when this does happen, it occurs more quickly for one person than the other~> it happens more quickly for the person who feeds heavily on the good feelings of the friendship to fuel her life... this imbalance can occur for a score of different reasons.... whatever they are, it's your choice if and how you confront them. If you truly enjoy the friendship of this woman, and if you value the tenderness of her heart, I suggest you continue to gently affirm that you feel genuine affection for her, and that it is warm and deep, but that it is completely platonic and that you need a certain amount of implied freedom from your platonic friends. If you think that you feel like she is overstepping her boundaries to the point where no repair can be made and you are thoroughly uncomfortable with her, then that is the time to whip out phrases like "Leave me the hell alone, stalker b*tch!".

Answer 4

If you're reading romance into this, forget it. If anything was going to happen it would have happened a long time ago. Some women enjoy talking for hours to a 'bosom friend', I think that's how she looks at.

I believe I'm right here. You are a bosom friend, someone she can talk to, have a chat anytime, joke around even and no strings attached!!

Answer 5

Ah yes, emotional blackmail, isn't it sweet?

If she doesn't want you to have any other friends, then dump her. She is a controlling b*tch. And nothing is going to change that. She is trying to MAKE you buckle down to her by not calling you when she said, then talking about this new guy (who is sweet).

You might as well just put that bull ring in your nose now, if you don't put this woman's whiles behind you. She will have you hog tied and marching to her tune really soon, if you don't.

Answer 6

She likes you and she's jealous of you hanging out with another girl. The guy she met was...I'll say kinda like a rebound.

It's like a guy really liking the girl but the girl likes someone else and he's jealous of her liking/talking to someone else.

Hope that makes sense.

Answer 7

i have been in this kind of situation before. its not an easy one to be in. First of all theres defientley flirting going on. thats obvious, it sounds to me that both of you have the hots for eachother and you enjoy eachothers company, but are also enjoying the company of others . You guys are basically filling eachothers gaps. If you guys are really good friends i would let it go, because if you take it further and it dosent work in the end it is gonna damage youre friendship

Answer 8

I believe that she wants to be with you. She is leaving you little hints like the fact that she is getting jealous. Females are very territorital and I believe the fact that she happens to meet someone else is just her way of getting your attention.

Answer 9

you guys are both afraid, maybe she wants to be more than friends but then she know you only want to be friends. So its hard for her, maybe you need to figure out what you want, cause a girl can only take so much after a while she will get tired.

Answer 10

This woman is a Control Freak...its her Way or the Highway! Get urself a woman that doesnt play games!