that she's a virgin and never gave a bj (but extremely excited and ready to learn, man lol if she really liked you she'd prolly give you one with in two months of dating) she doesnt act slutty and she likes to play hard to get (but not to hard, just enough to keep it fun and make sure ur interested) and she probably wouldnt "give it up" until about the 6month mark or later depending on her feelings..
would that turn you off?
2006-08-28 03:27:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most guys, when i tell them im a virgin are alittle freaked, they're like "seriously, wow thats cool i think" and they automatically assume im waiting for marriage (which im not, but if i decide tomorrow i want to - i will, nothing wrong with that)
but why does it freak some guys out? honestly, be brutally honest guys.
2006-08-28 03:29:23 · update #1
and i usually dont hear from them again..even if we did hit it off great*
2006-08-28 03:30:07 · update #2
um this is really whats happening in my life, i am "that girl" lol thxz
2006-08-28 03:36:39 · update #3
no more honest answers =/
2006-08-28 05:06:01 · update #4
Nope would not turn me off but you might think you are not hard to get...think in others shoes they may think you are impossible to get. Most men are intimidated by the virgin cause it usually is a sign that you are off limits till marriage and if they are young they don't want marriage yet. If they were thinking right however then they should spend alot of time with you and just kick it :) have fun and not worry about sex.
2006-08-28 03:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by omvg1 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I just say, be nice to her. It sounds like that is exactly what you have been doing. Congratulations. I used to like playing many things while virgin, and bj is just about one of the first things a girl would be willing to do out of curiosity (unless she is very shy or religious of course). I think it is healthy to try these things and keep on warming up for what will come next!
I must say I have been humiliated and mistreated for being virgin and it is a kind of pain that is hard to overcome! Keep on being nice to her and everything will be fine.
2006-08-28 10:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by Graça 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A sincere advice: Please guard your virginity and reserve your deflowering by your husband. Such marriages last for life long. A great feat. Your children shall be proud that they know the correct parentage. And you shall enjoy a lifelong bliss over this feat.
2006-08-28 10:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by hasanmuizudin 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
i will be turn on and i will feel honoured to be given a bj, but i won't be freak out,at least i know that the girl is a good girl and not a slut
2006-08-28 10:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by ##$SoulStryker$## 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I agree with drumrb0y, I would feel touched that she waited for a guy she really wanted. I would be honoured to have such a girl.
2006-08-28 10:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Draco 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Personally, it wouldn't freak me out; I would consider it a great honor to be someone's first, especially if they were being so careful in who they chose and why.
2006-08-28 10:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
hell no it wouldn't it would make want her even more
2006-08-28 10:34:26 · answer #7 · answered by rick a 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋