2006-08-28 02:48:45 · 19 answers · asked by NAIROBI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get help
2006-08-28 02:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not continue the relationship! You will never stop abusing her. The danger is you are abusive. I am a woman who was in an abusive relationship and I can honestly say I will be scarred for life from this man. Let her out of the relationship now before you scar her anymore than you have already or you end up in jail for abuse. Which is obviously where you should be at now for abusing her and admitting it to the world.
2006-08-28 09:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know exactly how you've been "abusive" to your girlfriend whether its physical, emotional, or mental not like any one is better than the other! any kind of abuse is wrong and you should not for any reason abuse any one. i think everyone has the potential to be abusive in one way or another in our relationships even if its just neglecting, ignoring, or avoiding someone. there are different kinds and different levels of abuse. its a positive thing for you to admit that you have a problem that shows that you care. you realize that what you're doing is wrong and can accept responsibility for it a lot of people don't!! that's the first sign that you are on the road to recovery. i think you should continue to seek help for yourself but in the mean time you shouldn't continue the relationship with her or any one else until you know for sure that you're not going to be abusive anymore because it can lead to either that person hurting you or even worse them hurting themselves.
2006-08-28 10:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologise to her for your actions tell her you are going to get help, and that you should seperate for this time. Seek and actually get help, when the therapist says your ready ask your girl to give you a chance to prove that you have changed and that you are now worthy of her. If you so much as touch her in a hurtful way again leave straight away and pray that she meets a good man to take your place.
2006-08-28 09:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by Draco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should mot continue the relationship if you really care about her. If you wanted the best for her you would let her find someone new who she can trust to not hurt her. I can't say that you love her though, because if you would hurt her physically and emotionally you don't really care for her. Let her find someone better so you can handle your own issues alone without having to hurt her. It's wrong that you know you are abusing her and you keep doing it.
2006-08-28 09:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by shortskirtmakeitwork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your scum. if you love her, you'll break it off and get some help..then once you've changed (and if you love her, you will change, love is the most powerful thing in the world) maybe you could pick up where you left off, but i doubt you could, in a relationship like that its hard to trust someone again, because you'll never know if they'll do it or not. get help.
2006-08-28 09:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by Xavier's Mommy ツ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crawl back to whatever trailer park you originated from you human size piece of crap. Hopefully, if your girlfriend is not as stupid as you are, then she will leave you. Do yourself a favor and never procreate. The world does not need anymore scum like yourself
2006-08-28 09:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by jack_daniels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question isn't should YOU continue with it, it should be "should SHE stay with it" and the answer should be NO! If you've been abusive you have absolutely no say in anything. She should have dumped your *** a long time ago.
2006-08-28 09:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by youdontneedtoknowme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try learning how to spell and go get some help. Plus, once she cries to a man in her family about what you are doing, then you will probably get your butt kicked, deservingly so.
2006-08-28 09:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Thumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should ask ur g/f what she wants to do
but tell her that ur sry and ur never do somethin like that again
to anyone
dont put pressure on her when she's answering
it'll just freak her out
good luck:)
2006-08-28 09:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by whycantifly74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you even admit that you are abusive to your girl tha i think makes you look like loser,,,,, why would you do that,,, one of these days she is gonna kick your butt to the curb,, or maybe fight back and knock your lights out,,or even better you will end up in jail, and you will be someone elses b----
2006-08-28 09:53:16 · answer #11 · answered by sunshine girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋