have know been with my boyfriend for one and a half years.i got a offer to study in london and i have to leave Germany not to mention my boyfriend on the 19th to start uni in london..have never felt so in love like this before and am gonna miss him like crazy..i know he feels the same way about me cause recently he always gets watery eyes when i talk about my trip..i want to be with this guy for always and i dont want the distance to weaken our special relationship..what should we do and what should i do..more importantly what does it take to keep the fire burning..i dont know what i would do without him..help!!!
2006-08-28 02:31:41 · 16 answers · asked by kapatikana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know how to help you, exactly, which i know isnt very much use, but if u love him so much, and he obviously loves you, your relationship will survive this. It might be hard, but it might also be worth it. GoodLuck:)
2006-08-28 02:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by talz_talz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up your goals for anyone!! If he really loves you the way you love him then he will stick with you through this, and the two of you will be fine in the end. But if he starts acting weird around you then you are better off without him. I know the distance will hurt, but it could also strengthen the relationship, and take it to the next level. Phone calls will help, and some kind of visit to keep the fire going. If someone really loves you then they will wait for you to get back. If he can't handle while you go to better yourself then his goals are more important to him than you are. It could work just have faith in your love.
2006-08-28 09:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by Crazychick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love can withstand any distance. Hopefull you'll get to communicate with him on a daily basis. Don't let your comfort level with him go down just because you're not right next to him. Try to make the best of it, any relationship is worth a shot. Don't give up, and be sure to be honest with how you two feel about the growing situation. GOOD LUCK=]
2006-08-28 09:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by shortskirtmakeitwork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
London isn't that far from Germany, I think you should go, and try to still work it out with him. It could be worse! You could be moving to New York!
What does it take to keep the fire burning? Trust, and lots of work on both sides, and lots of e-mails.
Good luck!
2006-08-28 09:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love each other than no matter what the distance the love will not go. just make sure u call each other alot chat online and be with each other as much as u can be, there is no better way to keep a relationship alive than communication. love can make any thing work it just takes work.if it is meant to be distance will make the heart grow fonder and u will love each other more
2006-08-28 09:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people are into long distance relationships. Although it's not for everyone. It will surely make or break your relationship. It's a tough decision but your future is important too. You'll just have to work hard at it...
2006-08-28 09:37:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy_Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a STRONG emotion and I know that you have heard the saying, Let it go and if it comes back to you it was meant to be. This could be the test of your relationship. If it is meant to be both he, and you will find out ways to keep things alive.
2006-08-28 09:37:26 · answer #7 · answered by FANNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh ,, how sadly case which yoiu have ..
really don`t know what to say ,, but really iut seem that you are both in love to each other ,, and you too have a great feelings to each other,,
but in the another hand you should study ..
and you have to do this ,,
i think you and him should to promise each other and you will love each other and never to stop that lovre till you meet again after you finished your study ..
http://thestarlitecafe.com/poems/101/poem_8358103.html
please read more poems for me and leave me your comments..
yours
hazem
2006-08-28 09:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very possible. You two have to explore EVERY means of communication possible. E-mails, phone, letters, texting...... You guys have to let eachother know that you are going to try the very hardest to stay together, even if you are in different countries!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-28 09:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it can work, Absence makes the Heart grow fonder, and you can keep the fire burning through having dirty phone calls, and sending each other some exciting gifts.
2006-08-28 09:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by elle_april_79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋