There is this friend of my boyfriend's who calls him all the time. I thought they were just friends. But recently she confessed her love to him and he told her to leave him alone, he was happy with me and our family. He told her to stop calling. But she can't give it up- she is a little homewrecker and we have been in many heated arguments over her. What should I do? I am very upset to think another woman is chasing my man... I don't think he would leave me for her but I can't help worrying about it.
2006-08-28 02:10:16 · 18 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why sweat it? Your man is doing his right thing by telling her to leave him alone, If he told her that he doesn't want her and he is happy with you why waste your time worrying about the other woman is that you are scared she may take your man or just that you realize hey there is a another woman in the picture that is definetly after my man. You know if this girl really likes your man she is going do everything she can to get this man. It not up to you to continue this argument with this girl, tell her you got better things to do rather than arguing with her over your man not her he is committed to you so why sweat it if he wants her believe me he will be with her. If you feel that he is not going to leave you for her only you know because that's your man and I am not going to say he is going to leave you. Don't give up on him, that is your piece of meat and if you gotta fight for it all the time its not worth it because he can put the stop to this girl destroying you'll relationship. Tell him how you feel about this girl in the picture and your disliking this and want him to put a stop to this or else you will move on and find someone that will appreciate you as a woman. Don't let that woman take your man and let her know you aint stepping down not a level for her.
2006-08-28 02:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now it would be too obvious if i tell you that, "It all depends on your man" but its true your man gave her so much space that she chased him and still chasing and now even brought you to this stage.
So just ask your man to chose between you or her.
And no need to do it in a heated argument, just make him realize that you two belong together and etc.
Take Care,
2006-08-28 09:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why would you pick an argument with him over this, at least he was honest with you about it. Tell him and you do also, tell her if she calls again, you are going to report her for harassment. The two of you need to work this out together, Be happy.
2006-08-28 09:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your man's told her off plenty of times and she still doesnt listen then you need to go over to her house and kick her ***!
She needs to understand that HE DOES NOT want her.
God, can't some people get the message already!
2006-08-28 09:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by julsgene 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call a lawyer. This is a kind of harassment. When she receives a notification letter of some sort, she's gonna be afraid and stop.
2006-08-28 09:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by bananebio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is, do not fight with him because of her. It was very sincere of him telling you what was going on with that girl. Just forget about her and enjoy your relationship with your man. Now think about this if he wanted something with that girl he wouldn't have told you about her. I recommend him to change his phone number. Good Luck
2006-08-28 09:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by princess22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
come on sarah,don't act like a baby.relations are based on trust.u need 2 trust him.u say that he wont leave u 4 her.so what's the big deal?let her do whatever she wants.just trust him and llive life king size.gud luck.
2006-08-28 09:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by cool gal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell her to leave him alone. It might get through to her better than him telling her. You need to let her know that you are very aware of her, and you won't tolerate her BS.
2006-08-28 09:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by Dre 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you and only you, you have nothing to worry about. Be able to trust him because when one person in the relationship begins to doubt, thats when it crumbles. Be sure to let him know he is everything to you, so that there is no need for him to turn to someone else for attention.
2006-08-28 09:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by shortskirtmakeitwork 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if he has told her to leave him alone and she hasn't he should tell her again more forceablly this time and warn her than if she doesn;t leave him alone then the police could get involved as this could be classed as stalking
2006-08-28 09:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by passtheremote2006 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋