When will my boyfriend propose to me??

Answer 1

When he feels like marrying you.

Answer 2

Only he knows if he will, but I would recommend you don't pester him about it or drop hints. Don't even say things like "If we ever got married, wouldn't it be nice to . . . ." I think it's important the impetus comes from him and he feels unstressed about it. If you do take the advice to propose to him yourself, judge your moment carefully and be sure he's feeling that way about you, otherwise if he turns you down you will feel devastated, and it could even blow your whole relationship out of the water.

If you've been together a long time and he's always made it fairly clear he isn't into marrying, or if the signs are there that he doesn't rate you that highly, i.e. he never makes an effort to put himself out for you, then you may be well advised to simply let this relationship go and be available for someone who DOES think you're special. I recommend a brilliant book called "He's Just Not That Into You". Not that I'm suggesting your boyfriend is not into you, but I think it will help you clarify things in your mind.

I hope he does ask; fingers crossed.

Answer 3

For sure, only when he's ready. Maybe he's not ready for the commitment. Now you have to ask yourself, do you love him enough to put your life on hold. What type of situation are the two of you in? Are both of you financially stable? Is there any doubt in your mind concerning cheating or anything? Do you have a place to live? Are there children involved? How long have you been dating? These are just a few of some very important questions to consider before jumping into a permanent situation. After all, after the wedding comes the marriage. Are there things going on in your relationship right now that you don't like or that you can't tolerate? If so, fix it before you enter into a marriage. Are you ready for the duties of a wife? Being a wife is not easy. It's hard work and after the glamor wears off, you still have to be a wife.

Answer 4

when hes good and ready and if he feels it approriate to get married. Most women assume that after say a couple of years the guy wants to make a commitment by way of making future plans. Thats not always the way, because they think it's what the man wants when in fact they are more than happy to keep things the way they are.

I would think about how long u guys hav been dating and maybe in a conversation mention it but don't put the pressure on it may go the other way. At least then it will giv u an idea of when rather than if..

Answer 5

If you have been going out for a long time then you should ask the question "Why wont he propose to me?". Has he been hurt in the past?. The only way forward is not to push it, that is the thing that will frighten him more than anything. You dont say how long you have been going out. If you dont feel confident to talk to him yet confident to talk to thousands on the net , then doesnt that ell you something?

Answer 6

He will do it when he is ready. I'm 27 and 2 years ago I got with my boyfriend who is 22. After 6 months he asked me to marry him. A couple of day of me going to the church and planing a visit to book a date he left me. We are back together now but taking things nice and slow. If he thinks he is being pushed into something I think he would leave. Just ask yourself this if you was put into a situation you didn't like wot would you do.

Answer 7

When he's really sure that it's what he wants and when he's really ready.

My fiancé had been talking about getting married at some point for ages, and knew that we would. But he still proposed in his own time when he felt that it was the right time.

If you can't even discuss marriage with him then your relationship probably isn't heading in that direction at the moment.

Answer 8

It depends how lond yous have been 2gether.Does he even know you would like 2get married if not drop the hint and talk about it.you should ask him his views on marriage also because these days people dont seem that interested in it which is sad but true and even if he doesnt believe in it dont be disheartened Love is Love you dont need a piece of paper and a ring to prove it and i bet he loves you anyway wife or not.Be happy x

Answer 9

Hey, dont loose hope, take your time. He might be shy to propose to you or if you know him as someone who is not shy then time will tell. The most important think is that he is yours, so why cry?

Answer 10

You sound desperate. If you've been together for many years, chances are he never will propose. If you've just met and he proposes, chances are he's a serial killer.

Answer 11

Well when he has enough money to buy you the big sparkler you want on ur finger! and when he can afford go give you the very best you deserve and no little! All he will want is the best for you and it may take time for him to be able to afford this for you, this may be the reason you are waitng.