I've been, noticing, her a lot lately, especially since it's the summer and she doesn't wear much around the house. It's gotten to the point where I've thought about accidentally walking in on her in the shower or something. I would never do anything, and she doesn't know, but for some reason i'm still bothered by it.
How can I not be attracted to her, or what can I do? I mean she's really hot, perfect body, etc.
2006-08-28 01:29:06 · 26 answers · asked by crazy mf 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
even if all this story isnt true, u need help.
u r sick my friend !!
2006-08-28 01:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
If you are serious you really do need to to approach a counsellor of some kind - even an anonymous phone line as a start.
If you are having these thoughts you must do something to stop it. It is serious, eventaully she will pick up on any tension and feel like it's her fault.
It wont go away by itself and if you do something stupid like walk in on her in the shower or other things you will destroy your relationship forever. It will never be the same.
Please call a caounselling service
2006-08-28 09:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would SERIOUS find someone to talk to about this and get help for yourself before something bad happens. You don't want to have that kind of attraction to our daughter, don't get me wrong you are suppose to think your daughter is the world and is beautiful but not to the point that you are thinking of walking in the shower on her to see her naked. That would be EXTREMELY embarrassing for her. Please try to get some professional help. You haven't truly done anything wrong YET, but before you do and end up ruining her life forever or taking the chance of something happening and then you would end up in jail. Please get some help from someone. There is professional help out that and it can be keep confidently. But once you cross the lines it no longer is confidently. Do not do anything that you are going to regret. Get the help now before it gets out of hand!
2006-08-28 08:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by awesomemommy05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously everyone here is going to condemn you and I agree with them completely. You are sick and you need help but at least your willing to admit to yourself that something is wrong here and your feelings bother you.
Ask yourself this. Do you love your daughter? You spent 15 years caring for her and protecting her from harm...do you want to be the one to **** her up permanently and turn her into a disfunctional individual who will have problems for the rest of her life just because you couldnt control your urges?
2006-08-29 22:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by g3nn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a serious problem that really needs to be nipped in the bud. The best thing would be to talk to a professional counsellor, who will probably have some really good and practical advice. I'd say one thing you can do is really dwell on how off limits your daughter is. Don't let it go any farther.
2006-08-28 08:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
if i was you i would get out the house quick go and seek professinol help and make sure you dont act on it you will ruin both of your lives forever and its sick too can you move out for a few weeks
2006-08-28 09:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by rachel551685 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not right in any sense and is pretty sick. You need to keep away from her and to refer to her as hot, is not a way that a father refers to his daughter. You need to go to a therapist ASAP.
2006-09-01 03:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by aleynam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How in the world can you look at your own child and think about her sexually??? You don't deserve to be a father. Your sick
2006-08-28 14:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by ♥mommy of 4♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need help , you have to be a man ..and bad..that is just wrong! You dont need to even be around her any..get help before your behind bars...
2006-08-28 09:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by sandlin1979 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to get help- and live somewhere Else away from your house- to PREVENT anything from happening- if you love your family then move out
2006-08-31 10:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by shannon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is really sick and you dont need to be around your daughter or any other teenage because you are very disturbed. you need help, dont ruin your child life by trying to molest her or rape her. get over urself!!!!
2006-08-28 12:55:22 · answer #11 · answered by prettykittybangs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋