HELP!!! What am I?

Question

I love to be the boss
I love to give orders
I prefer to be on top
I hate being the low man on the totem pole at work
I prefer for people to be subordinate to me
I like having power
I am strong minded
I love to be envied
I am the one that give out the bad vibes
I am sensitive to people feelings
I trust to easily
fearfully cried when Bush was elected again
I love to wrestle

Would i be characterized as a dominant person just because of the above? My friend says so. Can't I just be a strong person? What would my soul mate have to be, dominant as well? Would we get along? Or would i be better off with a submissive man that will follow my every command? However, I would like a man to bow down to me every once in a while, kiss my feet suck my toes, run my bath water, feed me, cook, clean, adhere to what i tell him in bed and do as i say without any back talk. *wink* Am i a dominant? Or a biatch?

LOL! i kind of figured that. Sometimes you just have to hear it from someone else.

oh for the record, i have high esteem folks. dont read to much into it than what it really is. Because of my "superior" personality, i am very successful for a woman of 23.

Hey, i do not step on ppl. *sad face* i am sensitive to ppl feelings. I dont wanna hurt anyone. I just like having power. I dont beat anyone or insult thier ego's. and it doesnt mean i am unhappy. I am very happy in my life. There are som ppl that i can do without, but i am pretty happy.

Answer 1

You are a very strong person.What some people characterize as a dominant,controling woman.Your soul mate would probaly have to be the submissive one in order for you to be happy.If you have two strong dominant people together thats a recipe for disater lol.What you need is someone that can put up with your dominace.Someone that will rub your feet,cook for you and run your bathwater but yet put his foot down when you get out of hand with your controlling.And dont worry honey you are not the only one that trembled in fear when Bush got reelected lol.

Answer 2

You sound like an egomaniacal biatch in training. And you are also totally unrealistic if you are planning to find a soul mate.
No person alive wants to be a doormat. And you want to treat your man that way. I'd run fast in the other direction.

I don't think you are ready for a relationship. You have you on your mind and there's no room for anyone else. Your soul mate is probably writing in to Yahoo:

I love to be the boss
I love to give orders
I prefer to be on top
I hate being the low man on the totem pole at work
I prefer for people to be subordinate to me
I like having power
I am strong minded
I love to be envied
I am the one that give out the bad vibes
I am sensitive to people feelings
I trust to easily
fearfully cried when Bush was elected again
I love to wrestle

You'll only find that person in the mirror and you will end up very lonely if you are so proud to announce to the world that you are Queen Biatch. Get real girl.

Answer 3

Having a dominant personality doesn't necessarily make you a Dominant. Many submissives also have dominant personalities in public, but in their relationships are submissive.

You don't seem to be that. You do not need to subscribe to a D/s lifestyle to have a man worship you like a Queen, however if what you are really asking is it possible for a man to overpower you and take all that control away, then the answer is yes.

You seem to challenging someone to do just that, and that's what you need to get a handle on. What is it that you really want?

Answer 4

I love to be the boss
I love to give orders
I prefer to be on top
I hate being the low man on the totem pole at work
I prefer for people to be subordinate to me

Answer 5

If you are all of that then you are neither a dominant nor a `biatch`. You are POTENTIALLY worse than both. I am being sincere here, as I am supposed to be, and do not intend to offend you. In my opinion you are a dangerous dictator in the making, if you dont call off some of these tendencies. Please dont join the army, or please resign if you are already there; otherwise I smell another Hitler in the making.

Answer 6

You are dominant, and you will have a hard time finding a guy who will stick around for it. There's nothing wrong with it, but make sure that's really how you want it. Suppose you hook up with a guy who is totally submissive to you all the time. What a wimp!!

Answer 7

A Leo, right? That's typical of them! But I bet you're really the complete and total opposite of all those things that you wish you could be. Nothing wrong with wanting to be #1...just don't have to step on other people to get there, Saddam, LOL!

Answer 8

It sounds to me like you have a pretty dominant personality.
You can be with anyone it works with. A lot of dominant people I know have ended up with submissive people because it works for them, and a lot have ended up with other dominant people because they need a partner to match them. It all depends on your specific self (with any subject), and just because you have a dominant or submissive (or both, or neither) personality does not lump you into a group of common needs, wants, or self. :)

Answer 9

you are tank types.Pretty dominating .You have to build your self esteem.You can always be good by not dominating and just being assertive.As far as marraige is concerned,the submissive person is fine for you until he can take it no more and just leave you one day.Anything beyond a limit is not tolerated by any type of person.every person is free and even God does not dictate .Who are we to ..

Answer 10

A strong type "A" personality.
Won't be easily liked by most, some will call you a Biatch.
Also young and rough will polish with age.