Ever since our parents got together we have had a great relationship but over the past year we have grown much closer and have been dating. Our parents have no idea. We have staretd discussing taking our relationship to the next level but we are a little unsure because we are step siblings. Oh by the way it is by marriage we dont share any parents.
2006-08-28 01:20:20 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Down the road this could be a little problematic as you will always have to be around her,but look at it this way I have a friend who introduced his girlfriends dad to his mum and six years later they got married and hey presto they became brother and sister (step) and i promise they aint sick or imoral....so if you get on and you think its gonna stick go for it....
2006-08-28 01:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear it can get compicated if something happens within the relationship such as... breaking up, cheating, etc etc. It is probably in the best interest for all involved in your family if you two knock it off with the hormones and find somebody outside of the family. Plus if you get serious or anything, or anybody publicly finds out about your relationship then it might become really terrible... Inbreeding is looked down upon in our society, even if it isn't really inbreeding but you have the same parents. Try and distance yourselves and find different partners for your own well being.
2006-08-28 01:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't sound good, nor does it look right, . Just b/c your not blood doesn't mean its right, in a sense, and through the law you'll brother and sister. There's many girls out there for you, try to find yourself that special one, and leave your step sister alone. How do you think your parents will feel about this if they knew what was going on between you two? Try to remember in life your actions don't affect only you, you should have consideration for the feelings of others especially your parents. Keep your life simple, and trouble free, life brings on enough complications.
2006-08-28 01:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by Joyous Dawn in the morning 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are, but if you are living in the same house, this needs to stop or one of you needs to move out on their own. You can't disrespect your parents by keeping such a secret in their home.
However, there is nothing wrong with what you are doing, if you like each other enough to date, then do it openly and honestly. If you start a relationship on lies, its doomed to failure. Think about the future repercussions of that choice.
If you are under age, it needs to stop until you are old enough to support yourselves.
2006-08-28 01:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, we ARE in the 21st century. Talk to your parents about it. If they say no, then ask them to divorce so you can have sex with that girl... Just kidding, but not really.
It is obviously not your fault that her mother and your father got married and turn the girl that you want to have sex with into your sister. On the other hand, you wouldn't have met her if your parents hadn't gotten married. Yep, tough situation. Anyway, talk to your parents about it, don't do anything stupid.
2006-08-28 01:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by mrquestion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if it is mutually consensual.
But frankly, the politics of it could be a mess if either your relationship or your parents' relationship didn't work out.
2006-08-28 01:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by ritabird1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its still wrong, regardless of how you look at it, it doesnt matter whether you have same or different parents....they are still married and so that makes you brother and sister, it is a morality issue, thats why they say not to do it.
2006-08-28 01:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a bit complicated. Sure, you could, but think of the consequences with your family and if you break up. Weigh the good and bad.
2006-08-28 01:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by nic_tammyscott 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ok to have sex with your stepsister because shes not real blood, but i would sugest u tell your parents really soon, cause there gonna find out the hard way.
2006-08-28 01:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by Skye 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have no blood relation
it is legal
wear a condom don't have any babies, what is more convienant than a f buddy that lives in the same home as you
I would keep it a secret from mom and dad though
2006-08-28 01:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋