my bf is a nice guy, everyone likes him. i think i love him but i'm not sure cuz he seems to act like he don't see me. we're working together and we get really busy and both have pbs from our boss. he's organised and quite selfish...very rational.. i seem to be the opposite sometimes. we're together for 3 months... i asked him to come and see my house (still in construction) but he said he don't wanna see it untill it's finished. everytime we talk bout things like work he acts a bit like he wanna prove he's got all the right answers...and at work ...ppl we work with (boss included) are nothing but jerks and everything is about rumours. my bf(economist) knows them all while i (secretary) seem to be in outer space....i'm worried..can u give me an advice?
2006-08-28 01:19:36 · 3 answers · asked by FELICIA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he don't seem to dislike my presence cuz sometimes he's so ........warm, he smiles when he sees me and we make eye contact everytime we look at eachother.
2006-08-28 01:36:17 · update #1
I would just take it slow. Doesn't make sense why he wouldn't want to come see your house till its finished? Have you ever asked him why? You might be taking some things of text. You have to remember your at work. Are things totally different away from work? If so it could just be the fact of being at work and being busy and if that's the case I wouldn't take it personally. It is hard to have a relationship with someone you work with. Just keep your relationship outside of work., if at all possible.
2006-08-28 01:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should never work with your partner or any family members at all! This will ruin your relationship. To me your boyfriend is not interested in you. You asked him to simply come look at your house but he was not interested! If he was interested in you he would of gone to see your house whether he wanted to or not! My advice to you is to leave this man and find somebody better! Don't change yourself for anyone and find a man who will treat you right!
2006-08-28 08:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is nice boy, who do not want to hurt your feelings , you should read the signs that he is not attract to you.
Change your appearance and have a more sophisticated attitude, it may work.
2006-08-28 08:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋