Okay, there's this guy I like, and I know he used to like but I don't know if he still does. I want to send him an email what do you think of this one?
NAME~
Hey, what's up? Alright, let me get to the point. So I know you liked me a year ago, and I don't know if you still do but I like you now. I know you might not like me in the same way now and if you don't that's fine, and I hope I haven't messed up our friendship by this email... it's just, you've seemed very distant after I sent you that sexy quiz. Why? Just so you know this is really hard for me to do (send this email) because whenever I have a problem I tend to keep it to myself and just deal or work it out myself. So please reply to this message and I really hope we can be friends if not more. Well, so I don't make more of a fool of myself I'm going to sign-off now.
~NAME
2006-08-28 01:09:33 · 15 answers · asked by ****stars***** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, and I was going to send the email today, so hurry with your answers!
2006-08-28 01:12:00 · update #1
I can't really meet him (I have before) because we are both really busy.
2006-08-28 01:16:49 · update #2
Okay, I've revised the letter a bit, how is this:
~NAME
Hey, what's up? Alright, I'm going to get to the point. So I know you liked me a year ago, and I don't know if you still do but I like you now. Ironic... I know you might not like me in the same way now and if you don't that's fine, and I hope I haven't messed up our friendship by this email... it's just, you've seemed very distant after I sent you that sexy quiz. Why? Just so you know this is really hard for me to do (send this email) because whenever I have a problem I tend to keep it to myself and just deal or work it out myself. So please reply to this message and I really hope we can be friends if not more. Hope to talk to you soon!
~NAME
2006-08-28 01:19:44 · update #3
it sounds ok to send bt just correct the last line doesnt sound right ...
2006-08-28 01:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but I'm gonna take a stab at guessing the answer is 'not very'. Here's some advice you should always remember when it comes to dealing with men. If you send, give, show, display, or insinuate, ANYTHING to a man, that can possibly be conceived as "sexy", he knows it! Following up with another 'hint' (aka email) isn't required. It might make you look desperate, or make him think you'll have sex with him (which he might take you up on, but won't make him "like" you). If he hasn't or doesn't respond the first time, he's not that into you. Let it go. You don't have to tell someone who wants to be your friend "it's OK to just be friends". You just are.
P.S. Sending a guy, you're not in a relationship with, a "sexy email" is often seen by men as being pretty forward (aka a slut). Don't do that again. Be yourself. Be nice. A guy that likes you doesn't need hints and reminders.
2006-08-28 08:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by IAINTELLEN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like auld mom's reply. Sounds like you talk too much which may be the reason why this guy is trying to distance himself from you. Some girls just try waaaay tooooo frickin' hard to have a relationship with guys who are not that into them. If the guy isn't interested in you, move on and stop making a fool of yourself and putting him on the spot.
That's why guys say they'll call you and don't! They just wanna get away and fade into the woodwork rather than have some chick grilling them for reasons and sh!t. Leave it alone!
2006-08-28 08:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send it. I just received an email from a girl I have not seen in 15 years and was happy to get it. Good luick to ya!! Gary
2006-08-28 08:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are afraid of rejection. A. your sending an email instead of doing this in person and B. Your email pegs you as someone who is insecure.
Just find the person and tell them "in person" how you feel.
2006-08-28 08:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by renascent_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just fine, look send it off, and if things don't go alright, then maybe he isn't the 'ONE', i mean the right guy for u, i and don't go for him, that's not life's way, if the boy likes the girl for real, then he'll do all he can to impress her and go on with her, he'll go after her.
2006-08-28 08:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by ZED 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if I would start if off by saying "I know you used to like me".... That makes it sound as though you might be desparate and now you are willing to "settle" for him. It may offend him.....
I would try to rebuild a friendship with this person, and see where it goes from there..
Just my personal opinion though!!!!
2006-08-28 08:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very unsure of yourself, guys like a girl with confidence. Just tell him how you feel face to face. That will impact him more than an e-mail
2006-08-28 08:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...dont send this email message....u will have to have a better way with words...
2006-08-28 08:14:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simpler and less making a fool of yourself:
Name~
How about lunch on Saturday? New place opened, would like to try it with you.
~Name
2006-08-28 08:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by auld mom 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The email is just fine it is just being you. Very natural that is the thing that counts.
2006-08-28 08:13:23 · answer #11 · answered by MenudoPie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋