recently i slept with my boyfriend for the first time. it was the first time id slept with anyone therefore i was nervous. It was his first time of sleeping with anyone too. he claimed he wasnt nervous! do lads not get nervous when its there very first time? i would have thought that everyone does there first time
2006-08-28 01:07:55 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone is, but guys dont usually admit to that sort of thing!
2006-08-28 01:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I've never been nervous before or during sex, not the first time, not ever. To be nervous is perfectly natural but pointless and can only increase the odds of something going wrong during or before the act. I'm a bloke and just turned 16 the first time, 9 years ago now.
2006-08-28 02:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same I was with my bf. He said he was not nervous for him, he was nervous because of me only, like he was trying not to hurt me much and focus on that, watch the expression on my face to be sure he's not doing anything bad. I was nervous, but not much. It was more a bit of fear of pain, after all the stories I had heard about girls' first time. But it was not as bad as I imagined it would be. It was nice and we loved it.
2006-08-28 01:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the first time you will feel nervous ,
but as a guy i can tell you that in a situation like this , most of the girls get nervous but the guys not
2006-08-28 01:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by The rocket 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allrite lemme explain something from a guys poin of view.
Hell yeah every dude is pretty nervous first time.
But its natural tendency of a guy tht he always tries to hide his nervousness or weakness especially in frront of his gf.
Some cant and some can.
So dont worry
trust ur bf.
thts the key
2006-08-28 01:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by i_know_style 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was nervous really. The chances are he was bricking it but wanted you to feel confident in him. If it was the first time for both of you then he was worrying about a lot of things and most likely wanted you to feel that you were making the right choice. Remember he is a man and we are all driven by our ego's!!!!!!!!
But that's just my opinion but i'm a man and my ego tells me i couldn't possibly be wrong!
2006-08-28 01:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by Too old for all this 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe Hes nervous also he just dont want you to notice it,coz hes a man they always pretend.
2006-08-28 01:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by AmandaNikolah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe some get nervous and some don't.
2006-08-28 01:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Avner Eliyahu R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never slept with boys but my friend did. is that yeh boys r a little nervous but they don't want to admitt it because if they do u won't sleep with them anymore.
2006-08-28 01:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by Devily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur boyfriend look at a lot of porno that why he wasn't nervous he was just imitating.
2006-08-28 01:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by shampoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋