a guy ive recently been seeing said a few days ago that he loved me when he dropped me off home one evening...i was quite shocked he had said that so soon as we've only been on acouple dates, but we have known each other quite a while...we text each other acouple of times the next day as we usually would do and everything was cool, then after that i did not get any texts for a day or so, diddnt think anything of it as i assumed he'd run out of credit which he had...he then did text me the following day confirming that he hadnt been in contact because he had no credit on his phone, but i havnt heard from him since, hes not replyed to my texts either, normanly i wouldnt be very bothered as i would think hes probably busy or something but after what he said the other day im kinda not sure if its just coz hes ran outta credit again maybe???,or if its something else, im wondering if im falling for him aswell.
2006-08-28 00:56:59 · 17 answers · asked by sexy 2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably your reaction to what he said has scared and embarrassed him. Maybe he's realised it was too soon to say it. Phone him instead of texting and ask him on a date again, clear the air and see where it goes from there.
2006-08-28 01:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by koolkatt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes embarrassed about what he said and isnt sure how you feel about things. if you were shocked chances are it registered on your face and hes now totally mortified - id ring him, ask him is everything ok and arrange another date with him. Once you meet him, Id explain that you were a bit shocked with what he said, but you feel you are falling for him too and that you'd like to see how ye get on
2006-08-28 01:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't communicate as much as girls do and I think you're overdoing it all ready. If you're texting him constantly it seems like you're e-stalking him. Don't run the guy off by smothering him. Chill out and find something exciting to do with your life. If he wants to talk to you, let him call you first. If he doesn't, that means he's just not that into you.
2006-08-28 01:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he had second thoughts about telling you he loved you and is just embarrassed now.
2006-08-28 01:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by Rudy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he feels like a big idiot saying i love you so soon, but if you like this guy keep reassuring him its ok..........if you know where he lives just go round and talk to him.... but there is nothing you can do really if you have no way of contacting him.....
2006-08-28 01:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by fossil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he is seeing somebody else that sounds like me like 5 years ago i am so sorry .
2006-08-28 01:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by christopher v 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He got sober and realized what he said and now he is too embarrassed to talk to you.
2006-08-28 00:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe hes lost his phone
2006-08-28 01:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by caz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it in a good spirit...... play it to win
2006-08-28 01:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by Debdas , 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be anything from laziness to he got tired of you.
2006-08-28 00:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋