i like this girl, but she was giving me some confusing signals, so i emailed her this ( read details)?

Question

can we please talk??
I've got to tell you something, because, well, i just got to know.
I really like you, alot. And it seemed like you used to like me. But now, it just seems like you are really really trying to avoid me. I mean, i know youve been busy and all with swimmin, but like since carrowinds, we havent talked, barely any , at all. It seems like you just dont care about me. I mean, i feel so confused, because, for some reason, you just stopped talking to me. Why? I mean, are you trying to get me to take the hint? Or what? I mean i really dont know what to think. Tell me anything, tell me that you hate me, just please please be honest. Remember that thing at carrowinds, guys cant stand when girls beat around the bush? Well, if you dont like me, please just tell me straight up. My feelings wont be hurt. And if you do, but just arent sure, just tell me. I wanna be there for you, I want you to be able to trust me, and be able to talk to me, about anything.

was this a good, or bad thing to do?

Answer 1

It's done so there's nothing you can do about it now except wait for her response.

But if she doesn't respond, just let it go.

Answer 2

Straight up and to the point, though you could have done without so many question marks, makes you sound desperate. In the future though, I would suggest doing this verbally. Call me paranoid, but I don't like putting things like this in writing where they can be edited, copied, pasted, forwarded, mass produced, etc.

At least you'll find out one way or the other, and if you don't, it's time to cut contact with whoever you sent this to. This letter deserves at least some kind of reply.

Answer 3

well i think what you did was good you emailed her telling her honestly how u feel now if she cant be bothered to make contact back sadly thats a hint but if she dont want to know you no more she could have told you.problem these days is alot of people dont communicate and thats when the problems start.give it one more try and if she dont reply then you need to move on,she is being cruel if she cant be bothered to write back and tell you. but then again she could be ill there could be a logical thing to as to why she not got back to you,have you tried to ring her.well i wish you the best of luck

Answer 4

This e-mail is pretty intense. She may need some time to think about what to say before you get a response. Be patient. Do not push her, or she could feel smothered. If a week goes by and still no reply, then talk to her in person. But try to salvage the friendship if you can, she may just need time to make up her mind about how she feels about you.

Answer 5

it is very brave to tell a girl how you're feeling and that's great. i hope you're just as brave when she tells you what she really feels coz if she is avoiding you there's prolly something wrong. good luck!

Answer 6

It was a good thing to do, you let her know how you feel. If she does not reply it is over.

Answer 7

I hope she doesn't see this on yahoo, i would be chocked.
But good luck, hope you get the answer your looking for.

Answer 8

sound sweet of you... but please if she does not answer, do not write anything again to this girl. she should tell you straight in the face if she likes you or not.

Answer 9

YOU SHOULD HAVE LET US READ IT FIRST... THIS LETTER COULD USE SOEM IMPROVEMENT. NEXT TIME YOU WANT TO SAY SOMETHING TO HER IN WRITTEN PLEASE CONTACT ME...

I'LL HELP YOU WRITE A LETTER THAT WILL MAKE HER RUN AFTER YOU - NO JOKE

LET ME KNOW

Answer 10

Its good... at least you told her honestly what you really feel.