I have a girlfriend i have been seeing for 9 months now . We have had a lot of trials and troubles mostly my doing . I have seen a decline in the sex and romance part of our relation ship and what i am asking is . Is it possible for a man to make a women that loves him not want to have sex with him ? I am not beating her down with my hands or my words i just did a few dumb nieave things and i am trying to earn her trust back . I was at the skatepark and soem really ulgy girl came up their with her boy friend and she started talking to me and my girlfriend drove bye and she thought i was flirting with her and i wasent what can i do to turn her back on and get her to bleave me and trust me ?
2006-08-28 00:39:46 · 11 answers · asked by christopher v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it is very possible but in your case i think she is playing you. i hate having sex with my husband because he makes it like a chore right up there with doing the dishes no foreplay or nothing just cmon wanna have sex or gime me some how nice huh but it sounds like it is a control game or she is just playing you.
2006-08-28 00:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by faithfullyyours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a candle light dinner in your back yard. Or make sure that you are at home before she gets home.Run a hot bubble bath with rose petals and bath salts in.You will need lots of rose petals cuz you will have to make a path from the main entrance to the bed on the left over petals you can throw on the bed. Use white silky bedding. Silky in this case means smoot movements.Play some romantic music in the back ground to give the room the necassary feeling. Get champaigne, strawberries, chocolate, icecream and lots of romantic eatable to put her in the mood. The room is the most important cuz that has to set a scene of romance and not fade after you have joyous sex. Good luck brother.
2006-08-28 00:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by flipper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for starters yes, it is possible to turn a woman off that loves you. Womens emotions work differently then mens. We have to be emotionally involved when making love, having sex, whatever you want to call it. If we are not in the correct mind frame, then it ain't happening buddy. Solution, romance, romance, romance! treat her like a queen for a week! best lovin' you'll ever get. rub her back (tickle her back too) rub her feet, then her legs, etc. all this is after a dinner and a movie of her choice. shower her with affection!
2006-08-28 00:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by phe_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was jealous of u talkin with another girl than there is hope enough yet in the relationship...you just have to relite the fires of romance, it takes effort and commitment if you want it to work, it is possible for 2 people in love to drift a part because they dont make the extra effort to stay together... do all the old tricks and u will see the sparks will light up once again....
2006-08-28 01:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by darthmawler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh trust me yes a girl can be turned off BIGTIME. What you need to do is up the anti - be more romantic that you haave ever been in your life - take her out/compliment her/buy her prezzies/tell her how much you love and appreciate her etc etc.
Trust is earned, and even if you didnt try it on with the girl in the park - you're girlfriend needs to be convinced.
its gona take time and effort - but she WILL come round eventually
2006-08-28 00:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are the most difficult creatures to figure out. My suggestion don't. Your best bet, go with it. IF she wants to talk, talk. IF she wants to shop, humor her. If she needs some of the good stuff, give it to her like it'll be your last time. Never let her forget who the man is, in other words take life by the horns and be the master of all you conquer.
2006-08-28 00:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way is that turn is no turn! There are some girls there who undestand love and reject it for a while! Then, when she can not resist, will make a move to you! you will be surprised! Condition: Be @ her!
2006-08-28 00:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her a box of candy let her know that you love her talk to her and not to other g/ s on the street long talks are good to have good luck to you
2006-08-28 00:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loves you she would trust you,love really isnt about sex
2006-08-28 00:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by t-crisis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is NO, if the love is real and consistent. But it should not be confusing/ambiguous in any sense, please.
2006-08-28 00:46:35 · answer #10 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋