Girls only. True response Plz?

Question

I need genuine answers from you to clear my confusion!!

Some time back I had to make a girl sit on my lap ,due to space constraint in the car we travelled.During the travel ,I found myself aroused in spite of my efforts to remain calm.

I am sure ,that she felt " it hard" while sitting on my lap but there was no reaction from her till the end of the journey. She didn't make any comments too. Now I feel bit ashamed about it . I just want to know
1. what would she have felt about that incident? Would she have taken it as an offense?
2. Would she be angry with me?
3. Should I have appologized her for causing discomfort?
Plz give me a clear answer, I feel bit sensitive & obsessed about this incident now.

Here are some additional info..

She is isnot underage she must be 20 or 21.

Are u sure that she would have enjoyed it?

I sometimes get excited when I think of it!!But don't want to loose friendship with her.

Answer 1

1. what would she have felt about that incident? Would she have taken it as an offense?
* depends...if she likes u even just a bit... that would give u a score... no... i dun think she'd take it as an offense... it's natural - u know... if i were her, id be FLATTERED...and TURNED ON! i'd take another 'ride' with you:-)

2. Would she be angry with me?
* why would she be? at least you didnt put it inside her... she'd appreciate ur being so self-contolled on that matter- not on the hard on thing, but the "after the hard on" - you know... u didnt say sum nasty things about it did you?

3. Should I have appologized her for causing discomfort?
* why, do u think she felt UNCOMFORTABLE? i think right now, she's shy about what happened too...

i suggest you go talk to her...so you can rest your thoughts... keikei?


goodluck!Ü

Answer 2

1. If you're hot, don't worry about it, it probably turned her on.
2. It would have been a compliment to any girl out there, she wouldn't be angry.
3. Ask her out dude. you're obviously attracted to her.

These answers change if she is a virgin. Then she may have been a bitt uncomfortable. Still no anger, but maybe a little freaked. (not a bad freaked either, she would have been scared and kind of excited at the same time.) Good luck!

Answer 3

First of all i see no problem in getting aroused. That is just a sign on how quick your physical response is even though you werent thinking about it. If it was me then i wouldnt take it offensively. I wouldnt confront you about it cuz i dnt know the reason why it happened (even if some girls would think that the guy was feeling sexual). I wouldnt be angry cuz i have no reason to be.I think you should apologise though it might then seem like you were thinking sexually according to her.I really hop that helps.Good Luck!

Answer 4

dont obsess about embarrsing moments, if I'd obsessed about the time I fell into a ditch when the guy I liked was watching me walk by, or the time I sat on a leather chair that made a farting noise in a college class of 50 and all thought I had actually farted then I would be a mentally disturbed wreck now... just brush it off as one of lifes experiences and deal with any flack from the incident if she raises it in the future...

Answer 5

If she had liked you she probably would have been surprised but it was nice of her not to cause a fuss about it and embarrass you! She may have been a bit uncomfortable but she may not have noticed and so you might be feeling bad for nothing. How old are you? and how old was this girl?! I think apologizing is a bit late now, and would make both of you feel uncomfortable about it. Try and forget it, it's only a natural response.

Answer 6

Oh dear, so sorry for you. I've always wondered how you guys concealed that kind of thing.
Well, I'm sure that she must have felt it and I think that she was very embarrassed! Scared too maybe. That's why girls and guys ought to behave decorously with one another.
I think that you ought to apologise. Just explain to her and tell her that you didn't mean it. if you're uncomfortable doing it face to face (she will be too, yeah), you should call her or send her a letter.
And ask her not to tell anyone either.
Good Luck! Tell us how it went when you're done.

Answer 7

I'm sure it is embarrassing for you. If she hasn't brought it up ? I would let it it go. Try to forget it. If she was offended I'm sure you would have gotten a negative reaction from her. I have a saying the more you stir poop the more it stinks. Just don't obsess over it. If she hasn't mentioned it to you then she probably isn't thinking about it. We all tend to obsess over embarrassing situations. It will pass .

Answer 8

1) flattered
2) why angry? Is she underage or a relative of yours? does she have a boyfriend?
3) no, don't apologize!
Why would she be offended? She made you aroused. I'd be thinking 'yeah, my **** is pretty damn hot'...
And no this is not a joke response. She would not have sat in your lap if she wasn't keen....

Answer 9

Well it depends on your relationship with this girl, but no, I don't think she'd be angered by it, because I wouldn't. Just try and forget about it though man, it's doing no one any good for you to stress about it. Relax. She's over it I bet, unless she liked it, then that's a different story... ;)

Answer 10

hmm thats a tricky one - if you bring it up and she wasnt aware about it then you're making yourself look a bit foolish, if you bring it up and she DID feel it - you may be making her feel awkward.
I think the best thing to do is ignore the whole situation as bringing it up now, this far after the incident is a bit silly.