my boyfriend and Ibelongs two different family status ,my parents will surely object the proposal if I say the matter to them.they are looking for agroom for me and they said that the astrologer told them thatt my marriage will be within two months and the boy will be north to my house.my lover is my neighbour and his house at the west.both of us cannot separate each other.my parents will never allow me to marry him.if i obey my parents that will be a cheating to my boyfriend and if i go with my lover then also i am hurting my parents .I am in a dilamma. What should I do? please healp me.
2006-08-28 00:21:10 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
What in the world?? MARRY WHO YOU WANT TO MARRY. Tell your parents to get over it! You don't have to live with your parents for the rest of your life....I have never heard of such a thing as parents picking out your life mate from an ASTROLOGER!!?? Do what YOU want, who cares what they want!
2006-08-28 00:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby u r indian, and u choosen tottally wrong place to discuss ur problem. This is western world, and can u imagine they can give u right sugesstions for this,i think never, and u also know that. So, just rush from here before they load u with their good sugestions, and discuss with ur friends or ur family members whom with u can.My best wishes are with u.In my openion, if the diffrence is not much and the boy is self dependent and earn enough to take care of u, just do what ur hart says, otherwise the life is very tough, dont be blind in love.
2006-08-28 01:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ashok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself.Do not ask anybody.Don't wory about the astrolgy and norh west.Life is yours.You only knows that howmuch u like ur boyfriend.Main thing is that If you can forget ur boy friend go ahed but do't make your sense ask it later.If youhurt somebody it will cure any how and if u hurt yourself it won't cure.Show the courage to talk with your parents wisely and planned if they love u.
Family support is very important in life.Do good for you with parent's support.
2006-08-28 00:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not from around here are you? Appearently you live in an area where culture dictates that your parents choose your husband. I really don't know what to tell you other than follow your heart, go with your lover if you are sure he is the one for you. We are born into this world of our parents, but it is meant for us to become our own person and make choices based on what we think is right, leaving our parents and clinging to our spouses.........................Good Luck
2006-09-01 06:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Chief 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Dear,
It is a very interesting question.First of all a marriage has to be performed between lovers.In some society there is arranged marriage.But the two couples should know this life is not the life of their parents rather their own.They have to think properly before making any decision.Besides you have to avoid superstition from your mind.It is God created us.we have to follow His commandments.We have to stick to the Bible.Otherwise it will harm both your earthly and eternal life.So I advise you if you love your boy friend and you think he will be your a lifelong partner,please marry him.If you think he will not,do not marry him.But stil do not marry whom your parents is going to bring to you.
2006-08-28 01:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by girum_tadesse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure where you're from, but there are certain place and cultures in the world where parents have a large say in who their daughter marries.
This is tough. If you marry your neighbor, whom you love, you WILL alienate your family, I'm almost sure of it. They may want nothing to do with you.
On the other hand, it is your life. And you only live once. Shouldn't you chose to be with the one you love?
I'm sorry I wasn't more help.
2006-08-28 01:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...for starters marriage isn't about what your parents want...Its about what you want...You should be with your boyfriend if he is the man that you love and the man that makes you happy...If for some strange reason you did marry someone that your parents chose, you would still be in love with your boyfriend and that wouldn't be fair to the other man nor to yourself...Your parents may get upset, but they will get over it...Just do what makes you happy...Life is too short to live to please others...Always remember that...Go with your heart! Good Luck!!!
2006-09-01 03:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by Meagan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's only one creator and that is God. Don't let astrology rule your life. if you love a person, you love that person for a reason.
sometimes astrology is wrong. God knows what your destiny holds too, he created you and knew what your life would hold even before you were born. so, if I were you I'd trust in God first.
not some hoogey- boogey genie down the street who has your father and mother mesmerized . go with what's real. and what's real is the love between you and your boyfriend.
2006-08-28 01:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by ibanezrocker35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents CAN NOT choose your husband and can not run your life for you. If you live with mom and dad get out and pay for your own place and start to plan out what you and your man want for a wedding and what ever else you 2 want
2006-08-28 11:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, it is element for you to ask be what your boy chum like ? he's appropriate with you ? Can he deliver happiness to you ? Does he conform to get married ? Does he have any household initiatives for you ? How ? Does he earn sufficient money to grant you ? Does he stay with you consistently ? greater and lots greater. i desire which you will have a great husband.
2016-09-30 23:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by mclelland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋