but i want only be a housewife and with children to take care my family.. but until now i cant still find the right man. i had 2 bf in my life when i was in my college days. when i left my country i told myself that i will look for my man and i would live happily ever after. util now no one is trying to court me or ask me.
2006-08-27 23:59:31 · 27 answers · asked by chic_girL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are still young 24!! you are a baby. Why dont you aim higher with education, study hard and go to university get a MBA. Aim for a great job with prospects. Not sitting in the house being a housewife. It is boring frustrating tiring demanding and so difficult. Once you achive the above I have mentioned. You have something to back you up if all else fails. Later on when you are ready and you meet the right guy then you can try for your other ambition of starting a family which does have its pluses as well but only when you are ready.
2006-08-28 00:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by nicecupofteanicecupofcoffee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are at the right age for getting married. Divorce rates drop like a bomb when both are over 24. They drop even further when the man is over 30, which is when they reach full maturity. Just make sure everything is clear on your intent. Don't think a man will simply understand when you drop it on him later that you have a career as a housewife and mother. You don't want to be an "only" anting. Stay at home mothers are just as important as those working, more so, since the children seem to do better. Might I suggest you call 1-800-375-2872 from 11:30am - 3:00pm PT (2:30pm - 6:00pm ET; 1:30pm - 5:00pm CT), Monday-Friday. If you get through, you will talk to a fine lady who can best answer your question. It's an advice line, nothing to do with buying anything.
2006-08-28 07:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are coming across as a gold digger. This being I myself as a man would avoid you like the plague.BUT WHY the rush to get married. Find a guy you like, and take it from there. BUT again I caution you, DON'T come across as you want to get married, have children,. and be a housewife. Now don't mis-understand me, most if not all women want this, but to just come across as this is what you want and there is no other alternative comes across as gold digger. Most women will accept the fact that they must work as well as the husband at least in the beginning. Once they get established like owning a home and what not then some women do kind of sit back and stay home. BUT now a days NOT all do. Most do work. It gives them Independence.
2006-08-28 07:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love will come when you least expect it and the right man will appear in your life. your only 24 so no use rushing into a marraige just to get married. Find a nice guy, who treats you right, respects you and makes you feel like the only girl in the world and when the time is right for both of you then get married..
Then you will live happily ever after
2006-08-28 07:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by mr_scotsguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, if u could only knew how many others like u out there and how small persentage of those other get what they want. i always wanted the same. u can't believe what a load of s'h'i't' i had to dig to find that perfect man i am with now. so if u think u re wondering why at the age of 24 u haven't got that perfect man here is my revelation for u - i have 4 female friends who dream about the same, but im the only one who got it.and they re almost 40 now. so prepare yourself for a very very long battle. and there is 50% probability u will never get it. also getting a university degree helps. u will be considered a great catch
2006-08-28 07:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy life you are only 24, when the right time comes for settling down and having a family then you will know. the right man will come along you just have to be patient and maybe get urself out there, go out with ur mates at the weekend and try not to look for the perfect man for you just look to have fun!
2006-08-28 07:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by Gary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you looking to live happily ever after you better stay single. The divorce rate in the United States is almost 60%.
2006-08-28 07:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 24 as well... And not married neither do I have someone to share my life with...
Enjoy life and take life the way it is... Don't waste your energy on finding the right man...
I always tell myself that it will come when time is there...
I'm not in for "men hunting." Most of the time you end up hurting....
Anyway... Wish you love, luck and may you find your happiness...
2006-08-28 07:31:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anirod 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say you're trying to hard - No guy wants to get with a girl who wants to settle down "no matter what"
Find a nice guy first then decide if you wanna settle down with him
Too many people just get pregnant with the first guy they meet and live very unhappy lives
Find the perfect man first then think about other stuff trust me!!!
2006-08-28 09:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by Dangermouse 29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't hook up with a millionaire you'll probably need to keep working honey. If you need a man start looking the right one could be just around the corner.
2006-08-28 07:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by peter gunn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋