Please help me! I am a 13 year old girl and really like this guy right? Well I flirt with him and sometimes he flirts back... but he found out I like him and I told him it was true and he didn't say anything. He said he loved me then he said he didn't. I'm sick of games and I want to go out with him, but I don't know what to do. Should I go out with him? Someone help me! I'm really scared to ask him out becasue I don't want to get rejected. HELP!!!!
2006-08-27 23:27:57 · 36 answers · asked by Gabby [xXx] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rejection is a part of life! There is no one on the face of this earth who hasn't been rejected in one way or another. Just ask him and if he doesn't like you find a new dude. If he does go nuts. But by the way you can't love someone of the opposite sex at age 13. It is just infatuation. After living with some one for a few years and then choosing to stay with them can you say you love them. Always remember that!!!
2006-08-27 23:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by Buzzkill 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are too damn young to be trying to ask anybody out. Child please don't rush into relationship or chasing little boys. Once you have a reputation as being aggressive then it will be hell to get away from that as the years pass. Be a classy young lady, let a boy ask you out when the time comes about. Play hard to get. Forget all the things about flirting with guys because this will lead you down a rough road. Boys will think they can run over you and do anything to you they want, and they will try. If you decide to tell them no, your NO will mean yes to them because you will be considered some fast azz little girl. Stay in a child's place. Don't ever let anyone disrespect you or play with your emotions. The day and age has changed and you are headed toward the wrong alley, stay in the good girl section with the lights.
2006-08-27 23:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Essential 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know from my daughter's experiences that guys and girls both can be really uncertain about relationships at that age -- he probably doesn't want to lose time with his buddies, he wants to keep his avenues open because he's too young to settle down...if you ask him out, please, if you can, try to see it as one date at a time -- just having a good time with someone you care for, but no commitments. If you think it would be too difficult to view the date that way, don't ask him out; I don't want to see you hurt. Just treat him kindly like a friend, and let him make the next move...but even if he says he wants a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, remember what you've already been through with him, and don't have expectations of how long the relationship will last. He's confused and scared and wants the best of both worlds, but it can't be that way in a serious relationship. Hope this helps!
2006-08-27 23:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by Honeybee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, if you really want to go out with him.
Else you will keep on thinking that you could have asked.
Does it really matter even if you get rejected?
There are so many good guys out there, atleat you will stop wasting time thinking about this guy.
Life if beautiful, have courage to live it. Rejections are part of life, they will make you stronger, otherwise you will get the guy you want!! Look at it you gain both ways :-)
You are 13, too young a age, avoid dating at this young age if you can.
2006-08-27 23:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by DKS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where exactly does a 13 yr. " GO OUT " I think you need to find out what life is all about before you get in too deep . I promise you that you can screw up your life ! I ended up pregnant at 16 yrs. old so I know what I'm talking about ! I love my kids { I have 2 now } but I never had a chance to experience life as a young person . I went from Daddy's little girl straight to Mom . It has been a very very hard life . Guys too earily can screw you more ways than one honey !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-27 23:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably not going to like my answer, but here's the truth: You shouldn't be dating at your age. Sorry but it's true.
You should enjoy being a kid. Worry about dating and all that stuff in high school. Don't deal with it now.
And especially if this person is older than you, REALLY don't deal with it now. Like, talk to an adult and let them know how you feel.
You are going to hear that over and over by responsible people, who are older and have a little more wisdom. Trust them. They know what is best for you.
2006-08-27 23:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one really loves anyone at 13. But if you want to go out with him, ask him. The worst that could happen is he says no, then just say you were joking or something.
2006-08-27 23:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sammy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really love this guy whose not totally like you? think about this! Girl marami dyang iba. Dont go out to a person na although mahal mo e kung hindi ka naman mahal. Baka may mangyari pa sayo na pagsisihan mo sa huli. Thhink more carefully!
2006-08-27 23:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ramil B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 13, take your time and don't be in a rush to date. How old is this guy anyway? I hope that he is 13 also
2006-08-27 23:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by Manera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in love with this guy. You should please him. You should go out with him whenever he asks you about this. You should go with him for games. It is very nice and will give you much pleasure and after all he will have love with you and you should not refuse him. If you refuse him either to go our or make love, it will tarnish your love and you will ultimately be rejected.
2006-08-27 23:48:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋