when im with my guy im usually on bottom but when i am i move back in circular motion and then he suggest i should be on top if i move like that when i bust out my moves. but when im on top i feel like im not doing it right and his has to guide my hips and that makes me feel stupid like im doing it all wrong.then at times we not in sync with our rythm and makes the mood go down. im just so petrifiend when it come to me being on top because i feel like im dominating him and i could be doing it all wrong what should i do move up or down ? back and forth ? what moves can i do being on top to him think im a pro and unforgettable sex. also another question is 'grinding'' different kind of motion than just being on top? please serious answers, no smartasses or anal vocabulary nitprickers. (pickers)lol..
2006-08-27 23:09:54 · 16 answers · asked by ninanite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
giddiup gurl ... happy for your man .. but seriously when on top please yourself take your time and make you happy hit all the right spots because ur in control... everything u do make us guys happy ... we will grab unto anything legs hips waist ... i kno that you can dance so put on some beats that u like and grind to it... have fun cowgurl lol ................... ps most men want one like u
2006-08-27 23:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Always keep a pillow below the buttocks of your man whenever you come from top. And have sex with good rhythm and motion. Don't do circus on bed. Have nice foreplay. In excitement phase a man gets erection while a woman gets good lubrication. If you are not properly sexually aroused then you won't enjoy. Have nice cock in your pussy and give good movements. You will really love to come from top because you know how to get fixed up so that your clitoris also can get massaged while *******.
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2006-08-28 06:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by a j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i had the same problem i usually do the same thing when i am on bottom cause its the only way I orgasm but when I am on top i feel really awkward what I did that helped was asked him how he liked it did he like up or down or did he like the grinding i let him guide my body to what he wanted and know i feel like a pro at it just ask him to asssist you when you are on top and you will come to a postion that is perfect for the both of you.
2006-08-28 06:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When on top, move anyway that makes you feel good. You are not dominating him, you are not engaging in a competition, you are sharing a very special time together. You want him to think you're a PRO? a hooker? No guy wants his special girl to be a hooker. Enjoy and do not compete, sex is supposed to be fun.
2006-08-28 06:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you feel guilty about , you must be happy to make him more excited by riding him , like you are on a horse , enjoy your griding too, while on top . This the best one for any love birds specially for a lady .
2006-08-28 06:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice is to leave you inhibitions on the floor during sex. You could rent some movies to see some good moves in action.
2006-08-28 06:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes finding the sexual cohesion takes a bit of time. it depends on how big or small of a woman you are, how your man's body is, the size of his gooey dragon, etc. communicate when you and your guy are going at it. if it doesn't feel right, tell him, you'll definitely know when it's going well
2006-08-28 06:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by JJohn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A quick answer because the yahoo police will delete this question-Just do a good bj and that will rock his world.
2006-08-28 06:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by super stud 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If ur really like to take control urself during sex then try for another pose, like try to do sitting on his lap or when he is lying u sit on top of him...
2006-08-28 06:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when u get ontop one of you move then the other starts and follows the one who started
dnt be so para he prob thinks your sexy
my bf holds my hips and moves me its ok its just what guys do when your ontop you can move up and down wriggle go slow go fast whatever feels good
just stop doubting your self because your boy prob thinks your amazing
2006-08-28 06:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by bee 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋