My fiancee study dentist,she is a 3rd year student,but in another country and these days she is facing a lot of problems their, the last thing happened is that theifs tried to enter her house.
So i am telling her to get back and forget about dentist and university.and she is thinking about it because she is tired their and terrified.
But her family,especially her mom insists that she continue and they are always telling her to continue and not to worry.
what do u think my advice should be?
2006-08-27 22:48:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Instead of telling her to come back and practically ' ruining ' her life, you should act as the friend that you are !!
Encourage her to keep on studying dentistry.
Her family is doing it, beause they really love her and want her to have a bright future.
Have you ever heard of the saying ' NO PAIN NO GAIN !!'
Well, that's exactly what her situation is.
Remember , try encouraging her and tell her everything is going to be okay in the end. Tell her she won't regret it.
Be a FRIEND !
Good luck :)
2006-08-27 22:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a dental school at any of the universities near or around where you live? She could always transfer, I'd think. If she's getting tired of the career option she picked, she really needs to decide that on her own, but talk to her about other interests she has and the options available to pursue those interests where you live.
2006-08-27 22:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by Honeybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could move in with a family in that country,, rent a room from them, then she would be protected when she was at home. and she could talk to them if some guy was bothering her,, the sons would probably take it personaly. PS, I really think this is a good idea, plus she'd have a family to talk to and eat with,, ect.
2006-08-27 22:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Running away is never a solution..
Safety, unless she's in a warzone, can be improved with simple measures..
:-)
2006-08-27 22:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Andreba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well study is important but is it worth her safety? If something happens you dont want to regret it...
2006-08-27 22:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by buttafly_biattch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can continue here. There are a lot of great dental programs here.
2006-08-27 22:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by lildude211us 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go where she is and be there for her so there is not so much pressure on her.
2006-08-27 22:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by Christy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes afraid for her own safety she should so move back but wat i dont get is how come she just doesnt go to school in the usa
2006-08-27 22:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by alli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no clue.
2006-08-27 22:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by only_g_i_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋