i and my bf had been together for 4yrs.i m 24 yrs old and he is
29 yrs old and he somehow proposal to me. it is too fast and i seem like looking forward to it but at the meanwhile i am afraid cos i had heard alot of fail marriage from my friends.
2006-08-27 22:28:30 · 13 answers · asked by yeron ng 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go ahead and do it
2006-08-27 22:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is what you make of it! Most of all, marriage isn't for everyone. Don't get married thinking everything will be like a TV sitcom where there are no disagreements, no problems with money, and most of all there is 50/50 teamwork efforts with the kids. No real life isn't like this every day. You know this man after four years and you know in your heart if you are willing to put up with his habits (good or bad). You know if he's keeping you from the next level of your life. You know if he's faithful to you. All the things to be afraid of...you already have the answers to. A woman's intuition is real. Listen. Age isn't a factor. Don't leave your engagement dragging along without sealing the deal without sufficient reason. Go ahead and change your last name. Congrats!
2006-08-28 05:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Essential 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be afraid. But if you both love each other, 4 years together is quite enough to know each other, It's not too fast. Others might fail, but have faith that you'll make it work. Go for it and be happy. Congratulation.
2006-08-28 05:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Akai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. only cause some of your friends had bad experiance it isnt mean marraiges r bad. Get marry be happy & be a good example to your friends. go ahead in life & enjoy it to the fulest.
Congrats in advance.
Godbless.
2006-08-28 05:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by ami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage time is coorect but wait for baby 2 more years
2006-08-28 05:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by nisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him and if he love you and if you have opportunity to live together accept the marriage. it is the right time. You should not wait any longer.
2006-08-28 05:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your bf has in the right age and i think its time to settle both of you. advance happy wedding.
2006-08-28 05:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by lordken10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is- go ahead- congrats!
2006-08-28 05:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by Mash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and only do it when you are sure about it.
2006-08-28 05:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If he was right for you, you would not be afraid.
2006-08-28 05:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it an HONEST shot!
2006-08-28 05:39:54 · answer #11 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋