Sorry, I cannot tell you about the mess. It is driving me crazy. I know, I must love and not care for myself, only for others. However, when is it right to put an end to giving when the other only takes and makes you go against the earthly law? I must give, I must give, I must give, I must give, right?
2006-08-27 22:24:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No you don't have to give, give, give...I kind of have the same problem. I am always so concerned with how others feel and their needs that I often over-look my own. It's defeating and there is no longer happiness in giving anymore. And it makes you depressed and feel like you are used. Take care of yourself over anyone, you cannot care for anyone else if you cannot care for yourself first.
2006-08-27 22:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You need to care for yourself and others and give as much as you take, take as much as you give. Or everybody can give a lot and take a little.
I could be more specific if you are willing to tell about the mess.
good luck with this and i hope you get out of it soon.
2006-08-28 05:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by lildude211us 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to do anything that you dont wanna do!!
Love yourself and get help trying to get out of the situation you are in!!
Only love those that are good to you- anyone that treats you wrong, deserves no love whatsoever.
It's easier said than done- but try and be STRONG, go to someone you can confide in, and they will guide you to a better life!! If you have noone like that, then i suggest you either ring a helpline or go to the law!! Good Luck x
2006-08-28 05:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you find yourself in a mess Douglas, but you have to take care of yourself before you can take care of anyone else. Do what you think is the right thing for you.
Good luck.
2006-08-28 05:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by A G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save a bit of giving back for yourself. There is no point in giving if you don't want to or you feel that you are being taken for granted. Take control of your life!
2006-08-30 00:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Bart S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesn't sound right. You are on a mental breakdown.
Take it easy. In life, we give and take. Not always give neither not always take.
What one practises is a balance in life. ;)
2006-08-28 05:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh, thats not a question ... how could we solve it if we dont know what the mess is??
2006-08-28 07:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u cannot talk about the subject.. dont even bother to ask a question... how can we asnwer u ?
2006-08-28 05:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by nevi n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋