I really dont know whether to go out with 'any' guy or stay single (and lonely) and look for somebody I really love?
2006-08-27 22:15:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can stay single but still be happy. sometimes the happiness of the person depends on his/her disposition in life. it is a choice... a decision. well, for me it would be best to stay single and wait for the right guy than go out with anyone and still not be very happy. Don't settle for any second best. we all deserve God's Best man for us, he may not be perfect (no one is) but definitely, he will be the perfect man for you. yeah sometimes we tend to be desperate when everyone else has their own partners but then again the question is would you go for someone that won't be there for you forever or wait for the right man and receive your lifetime reward? sometimes waiting really matters. =) the more we want to hurry, the more we get hurt. As the saying goes, don't find love, let love find you. just pray for it, it will surely come.
2006-08-27 23:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to your question, you have the choice of being single and lonely because you are looking for Mr. Right or you could go out with anyone (not Mr. Right) and try to be happy with that person.
I say to you this - sometimes, we have an idea in our heads about who Mr. Right is and guess what? Sometimes, we are absolutely wrong. The person who you thought could never be Mr. Right, actually can be Mr. Right. So, instead of going by some preconceived idea, I say go out and date and give the guys a chance. You may be surprised - that the guy you thought was not your type, not your cup of tea, not your ideal - he turns out to be a great guy - because you got to know him and who knows even fell in love with him.
2006-08-28 00:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by happy inside 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i will say good people are hard to find, so its better you go out there and look for the one you love, but please be careful while searching for them, cos there are some out there that are pretenders.
But if you feel that the right guy would come look for you someday, then i will say you should stay single and wait for the right guy.
2006-08-27 22:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by Oshoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your out of work it can be easy for your brain to go to sleep ;-) so maybe start reading a good book that would could get really into like The Twilight Sage or Lord of the Rings or The Girl with the Dragon tattoo..(something that will keep you going until you find a job)... :-)
2016-03-26 22:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Bonnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you must be having some kind of criteria of a patner in life so mix with that kidn of crowd and you might find somone u really hit it off with, remeber in life u never look fr love it finds you, and sometimes you never realise that the person ment fr you was standing by yr window all this time and u were looking further.
2006-08-27 22:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just allow fate play the hand, continue to date, go slowly and before you know it you may find yourself with the right person. Don't take your self off the market and make dating fun. But always be honest with whomever you date.. and take it slowly!
Hugs - Mel (Loving Memory of our son, our angel Zachary Aug 4, 2006)
2006-08-27 22:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say go out.. you never know whether you will be happy or not unless you go out. So why not.. take the chances and you might find your Mr Right sooner than you think. If you wait, you might have let him slip by.. you never know.
2006-08-27 22:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by bluezest27_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with somebody and find out whether THEY are the person you really love! Good luck!!!
2006-08-27 22:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to discover who the 'right guy' will be like is for you to go out with guys who aren't- you'll learn something new about them, and yourself, every time. That's really important.
2006-08-27 22:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just date different men you are interested in without jumping into a committed relationship with any of them. Have fun and avoid sex until you have found one you would like to have a more committed relationship with.
2006-08-27 22:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋